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My heart went out to you as I read this. I'm sorry that you've had to experience it. I can relate. I'm a multi abuse survivor. Starting with my mother. You're fed up. Which is good. Even if you're not ready to take the exit, you're moving toward it. So, however it is, please do what you're...

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I prefer animals over most humans

@sunflowergirl1306 The main one I keep in contact with that way is my bestie

Yes, though some good has come of it. Including the amazing friends I've made the past few years. I gladly accept those hugs. Here's some in return 🤗

I've been using social & other sites for 22 years. I rarely give out other contact info. I like to stay on a forum, for example & get to know someone through interacting on the threads. Which sometimes leads to DMs. If a solid connection is made, I might offer my email or perhaps Facebook. Those...

@Fragilegirl I'm sorry for the loss of your parents & friend. Have you volunteered or considered it? Six years ago I started volunteering at the local shelter with the kitties. Over time I became the one to take the photos & make the observations to help them get adopted. It's been very...

Kudos to you for going to a meetup. I'm the one on one type myself. I'm sorry that you felt excluded. I believe we're all hopelessly awkward in our own way. Or, as I say, delightfully quirky. I don't know if anyone has mentioned this. It's how I am & many of my friends as well, so it works...

Thanks. As I posted in my intro, I'm a 3x cancer warrior (currently with stage 4 uterine) & a multi abuse survivor (starting with my mother). I also lost my ex in Dec. We were friends & I was his advocate (he was in a care facility). A lot of conflicting emotions to process, as he was one of the...

I like observational humor the most. Also sarcastic, absurd, dry & goofy sometimes. I can have self deprecating humor. I don't like humor that might hurt someone. In any fashion. Having gone through a lot of difficult things myself & knowing what it's like to be triggered. Suddenly having...

We all find different things humorous

I enjoyed it. As I said, it is intense (if you like that sort of thing). Sometimes I'm in the mood for serious dramas. If not carrying is what is necessary, I hope it works out for the best.

Unfortunately. I've known people who have had to evacuate & even those who have lost their homes. Not their lives, thankfully.

I'm going to need to watch that again some time. When I'm feeling like something intense.

Going from one county or even one town to the next it seems you can be in a completely different state. There's such variety. One commonality is the hills. Beautiful. One of my favorite views. Not sure if they're alive with the sound of music, though. I suppose, it depends on what mood they're in.

The title makes me think of Robert DeNiro in Taxi Driver

Hi, how are you doing? Are you originally from MN? I'm a NorCal native. A couple of hours north of San Francisco.

I haven't been here that long, so don't really know anyone. But, I'm looking forward to making some really good friendships.

I guess one benefit of being disabled is no regular schedule. That suits me fine. I got up at 9:30 today. That's my usual time. Occasionally it's earlier if I have a morning appt & sometimes it's later if I'm feeling really depressed.

Nothing yet. I don't cry every day. I think I do more now since I've been going through inner work & healing. I'm a multi abuse survivor. Living alone, I can process things more & let my emotions happen. Though, it's usually not about past experiences. I can get teary to full on sobbing &...