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Do you know how many Doomsday theories come out every single year? And it's been going on since the 1500s, or even longer. I just roll my eyes.

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It sounds like you've tried that option already. I would not put much stake into it. You're going to have to be upfront with her and tell her that her behavior, both external with these goings-on and the religion-geared focus are really bothering you. And if she still just goes to that same...

But that's your problem. Self-improvement is how you wind up getting what you want. And you'll never get it if you remain hopeless that it'll never happen. Just keep going forward day after day and you never know who you might meet. I speak from experience here, man.

That is so ridiculous and cowardly of them. It sounds like passing the blame to me. Anyway, I'm relieved to hear that about your school. I urge you to seek out a councilor or something else like that over there and explain all this that you have here to them. I have a feeling almost any...

My point is, do you think Ardour is going to be there to talk to and help him out if he followed his bad advice? Yeah, probably not. People in this predicament are extremely vulnerable, and if they're bringing up said topics it means they put a lot of weight on them. You have to weigh your...

Yeah, but even if you tell her, you know what her go-to response is going to be. And that hasn't been helping, and I don't think she'll see that and put 2 and 2 together. One other thing I forgot to ask is, given how your mother is, what kind of school are you at? Is it a religious school or a...

Yeah but 30 is just a number. You still have time.

I've seen way too many people like him. They have bad experiences with women and then try and get other guys to feel the same way, which only breeds more like them. Yeah, I don't like that, especially when someone is trying to wind up with someone and there is actually potential; the last thing...

That actually changes the dynamic quite a lot.

The movies I like all have depressing or bittersweet endings; people here probably wouldn't like them.

Damn, I was afraid of that. Do you have any other adults in your life you can turn to? To be honest, why not try a school councilor? Do you have access to someone like that? Tell her the same thing you told us, that your mother forbids you from any non-religious help and the like. That alone...

I know, but you're going in already with a give-up mindset, and like that, nothing is really going to help you.

Hey, thanks for registering! I hope you get what you need here! Nothing to do but start posting and see! :)

Please don't start up with that negative romantic mindset; we already get enough of that here. It's only true if you believe it; IE, if you change your mindset, a lot can and will change. That's your first step. Welcome, I guess.

Hi, what a poignant introduction post. You're not bothering anyone, so don't think that. Not at all. Well, you are correct in saying you're problem is over-preparing and then things never go to plan. You can never accurately predict someone else, even if you are skilled and adept at...

Why the hell do you keep pushing this? Seriously, drop it already. I've gotten through to this guy, not you, and both him and her are doing quite well now. They had some humps to get through, but they did. I know you are bitter towards women and utterly hopeless about your life, but...

Hello, welcome. There's always something new to look forward to. But what gets me up, at least earlier than I would like, is turning on my computer because I need it on for notifications for work. I can then cheat and go back to bed and listen for the dings though; that do wake me up. But in...

Hey, thanks, I appreciate that. Don't worry, I talked to him in depth in private message after this and it seems all is good for him now. We actually bounced a lot off each other.