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Wanting to get better is a good sign. But it's also a sign that you might be reaching your limit. I'm gonna try and avoid going on a rant about myself on your thread, but I guess comparing it to my own experiences is probably the easiest way to analyse it. I always thought I was depressed, hit...

General Update: Screw them, honestly. Few more months to live with them anyway. There's no chance I'll end up sharing a place with them next year. Better to just focus on finding a decent place with decent people next year. No, thankfully. I wouldn't clean up a roommate's mess, unless there...

I've come close at least once a week lately. Two days ago, I would have if I had the means.

I think I have feelings for two separate women. And I could never be with either of them

I've always found this to be kind of a non-question, in that it doesn't matter how much of a loner you are. You could be the most introverted, lonerish person in the whole world, and you'd STILL crave some social interaction after a while. I don't think it's societal programming, I think it's...

No. They literally just have drinks at the kitchen or go out to one of the local clubs, as a flat, and organise these things as a flat. I've just become the one person they leave out. And I've said yes and gone along with it every **** time they asked. They have no reason to feel rejected.

I might have posted about this before, but basically, my flatmates have all dumped me. Beginning of the year when I first moved in was great. We got along, we had drinks together at least once a week or every few weeks. Things seemed to be, at least somewhat, looking up. Then, near the end of...

I think being single itself isn't the main issue. Don't get me wrong, having a loving girlfriend is one of the things I want the most in this world, if not the one thing I miss the most. But ultimately, my lack of any sex life or friends is a more pressing concern. If I had those, I think I...

I really hate this mentality in general. The notion that you must be perfectly happy with yourself to be in a relationship. Here's what I'm gonna say- the depression itself is rarely the issue, it's how you deal with it, and more specifically, how you expect your partner to deal with it. If...

It's always us vs them with you. It's always that you know best, and everyone else just made bad decisions, while you were just unlucky. You're always surrounded by idiots who just don't get it. Everyone else can be blamed for all their problems, but you're just helpless. Everyone else's faults...

I posted a message that I need to find housemates for next year a few days ago on the local housing website or whatever you call it. No one has responded. Which is normal, these things are slow, and the ones with responses were at least a week or so old, if not more. But by god is the anxiety...

I don't mean to undermine your issues or sound condescending (I don't know all the details anyway, so there's no way to make an informed opinion), but it just seems to me that a lot of this is just your "feelings". You really only give one example of a person just liking you because you are a...

Yeah. I'd say at least 50% of my posts end up never seeing the light of day, because I just feel I wasn't clear enough, or said something that might cause conflicts unintentionally, because people on the internet apparently need every last detail spelled out for them and will take any minor...

This is something I wish I could say to someone very important to me It scares me how much I've started depend on you, and it's unfair to both of us. I know I'm important to you too, you've said multiple times that you probably wouldn't be around if it wasn't for me, and the same goes to you...

I'm tired but I don't want to sleep, because my day was so empty and I have stuff to do tomorrow that I'm not looking forward to

I suppose we should agree to disagree. Technically, yes, the ground rules are for the relationship, as you can't just "stop" loving someone. But if someone is no longer in your life, especially if that someone has done something to hurt you, they don't deserve your love any more, and you ought...

Finland's a nice place, been there a few times. Hope you enjoy the forum!

Okay.

Okay, well, are you trying to convince me I'm less than you or better than you now? At least you seem to be having fun with this.

Believe me, I'm not better than you. At least you can have that