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this 51 second clip very clearly exposes the tremendous power of genetics when it comes to male/female relationships.  it is also buried in a reply from another thread but i thought it critical enough to make a seperate thread. try to imagine the outcome of this encounter if the women in the...

i think if the world worked anywhere close to the way you suggest it does there would be far fewer single, lonely men in it.  women only care about the things you mention when a man is at a certain level of looks & height-otherwise they are completely irrelevant to them. some of us have tried...

as i mentioned in the original post it was very likely done as satire but currently is a case of life mirroring art. the reason why the first man is nondescript is because he is average looking.  the reason why the second man is so enthralling to her is because of his above average height, face...

very sorry you are in the same boat as i would not wish this upon my worst enemy. for me it's more a matter of being inferior than defective though-but i guess being inferior enough could be considered as some sort of defect.  i think it's devastating to realize that for some of us the only...

i do not enjoy being reminded of my physical unattractiveness so i also avoid mirrors aside from shaving- i very much dislike taking photo's too but masks have helped in this area.

thanks for posting the actual link.  one has to be very careful these days as it is so easy to get banned-even by posting innocent and relevent links. i'm glad you found it so funny too.  it would be far more amusing to me if i were not in the same situation as the first guy but it sounds like...

thanks for your thoughts and i agree that it is very sad.  i think the point was that the first guy is considered a creep merely because he is only average looking.  the second guy was very desirable to them despite his stalker comments because he is tall & facially above average.  for those who...

i am not sure if posting links are allowed here or not so i'll just post the title and those interested can search for it on youtube: "Girls Are ********: At a Bar" this 7 year old, very short 1:23 video which was likely considered as satire at the time it was made has now become an all too...

thanks for your reply & thoughts.  i am not religious as i have never seen any evidence of a god or anything supernatural.  i can see how religion may be comforting for some but just like most things it is not the answer for everyone. in fact, i think that one of the big reasons so many do turn...

personally, i have great dread of the future & deeply regret the past-the present is also quite miserable.

Vinny DSome good advice on here...I felt I was dealt a bad hand in a way.  But, I feel like I need to try and find happiness through things that I'm interested in.  I guess that could be classified as distraction  - but if it makes one happy if even only temporarily, then why not?  Just try to...

very sorry to hear about your struggles.  i have done pretty much everything i can do to self imrpove yet still have had zero success.  everything else in my life is not too bad actually aside from this one extremely critical issue.  the problem is that everything is pretty much meaningless...

it's not annoying at all and i truly hope that will be the case but you are far more optomistic than i am.  i tried thinking like this for years and nothing ever came of it so i ended up where i am now. i actually used to be quite optomistic but the years of rejection & failure have really taken...

being alone & unwanted are two of the worst possible curses and it only keeps getting much worse with age as the tremendous regrets continue to building up year after year, decade after decade.  the sad reality is that most of what we are and will have was determined entirely at birth and there...

perhaps there is some truth to this but i still think you are vaslty underestimating the influence that media & movies have on popular culture. maybe the effect was far more limited in the past prior to cell phones & the internet but has increased exponentially due to these platforms.  just look...

thank you for your thoughts & suggestions- i would like to think that i would be able to get there at some point but the bitterness at missing out on most of what makes life worth living is still very strong in me and i am not even close to being young anymore so have many decades of experience...

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media & cinema shape the expectations of most people-especially when they are children.  i think the women you are mentioning are not just looking for merely a man with a good soul and very likely have had many who who were interested in them but the men did not meet their looks requirements so...

for some it is more of a nightmare...

this is true but the things which women find attractive cannot be improved through effort or hard work.  there are always a few outliers who may be fortunate enough to buck the trend but for every one of these there are countless others who will never have a single chance regardless of what they...