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  1. ardour

    What are you thinking right now?

    They only get two weeks annual leave there and even that isn't mandated. Why do you think we only see older retired American tourists? He would have to work overseas. I'm guessing Ska doesn't have the money to travel or move out of home yet.
  2. ardour

    What are you thinking right now?

    Our biological default is to find people of healthy reproductive age attractive. Any adjustment to that happens through experience. This is not a matter of being a few years behind, or some 30 yo guy with an unhealthy interest in barely legal girls. Most of the people my age are simply old in...
  3. ardour

    What are you thinking right now?

    I don't have the necessary 25+ years of normal life experience to find a middle aged person appealing, end of story, and you don't get to gatekeep who can whine here.
  4. ardour

    What are you thinking right now?

    Eh... not gonna happen. Dating an averagely experienced woman my age feels like teenaged boy me hooking up with his school teacher. Mentioned it before but I've been to the 'age appropriate' meetups with mostly divorcees and it was very uncomfortable.
  5. ardour

    What are you thinking right now?

    I've been persisting with the meetup events lately, pretty much forcing myself to go. Noticing what could be interest from younger women at these events. (Late 20s onwards.) They'll ask personal questions I'm not used to. Sometimes it seems like they're trying to figure out my age without...
  6. ardour

    What are you thinking right now?

    Doubtful. Tyson's been bankrupt and is suffering chronic health conditions, and Jake Paul's a scummy youtuber...
  7. ardour

    What are you thinking right now?

    Jake made 40 million, Mike 20 million.
  8. ardour

    What are you thinking right now?

    The Tyson vs Paul fight. After all the build up, what a farce and a cash grab. Tyson looked like he could barely stand and didn't even try. Shouldn't be allowed to happen.
  9. ardour

    Men almost never get compliments.

    What kind of compliments is the OP looking for anyway? A compliment won't grant us time back, a real circle of friends, or missed experiences. It also feels like this is very much a younger millenial/Gen Z thing. Twenty years ago men didn't expect self-esteem boosts from acquaintances or...
  10. ardour

    What are you listening to?

  11. ardour

    History and Standards

    Don't waste your or her time. As someone with zero experience I already know I couldn't relate to anyone with a high or even average body count.
  12. ardour

    The pressure to have ***

    The horse bolted with the sexual revolution and the availability of the pill. And I don't think most young people today would want what goes with social conservatism, even if they happen to have conservative views around ***. For eg. women being restricted to the domestic sphere, men working...
  13. ardour

    Unconventional Ways to Attract a Mate.

    Didn't George Costanza wear a fake wedding band in one episode of Seinfeld? Perhaps there's something in this.
  14. ardour

    Songs that irritate you

    Hate this song with the burning passion of a thousand white hot suns.
  15. ardour

    What are you listening to?

  16. ardour

    If your your an average guy, things suck, and theres nothing you can do

    I think things become impossible past of certain point in life and it's easier to just not try and avoid the gauntlet of judgements that are inevitably going to be applied. Women our ages avoid us because of the inexperience and what it suggests, but younger woman who go with older men usually...
  17. ardour

    Women i.e. Relationships(vent)

    Be wary. I've been to a few social themed meetups where women here on work visas would approach much older men hoping those guys would help them get jobs, show them around, help them with a local driver's license, etc. The chances of the fist 2 genuinely wanting relationships are practically...
  18. ardour

    What are you thinking right now?

    A form of authoritarianism you agree with. Or is this a controversial thinking out loud sort of statement? Ah yes, the civilizing mission. Except it's their right to both live as they please as well as inhabit land they lived on for millennia.
  19. ardour

    What are you thinking right now?

    The reason we have welfare states in the developed west is because the 'lower classes' voted in left-leaning governments during the early-to-mid 20th century, when there was enough economic development after a century or so of economic exploitation of workers. It's got little to do with a...
  20. ardour

    What are you listening to?

    Not normally my thing.
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