This is the video that originally woke me up to the differences between men and women when it comes to standards, and the dating scene being rigged.
He says "men have done this to themselves" because men have allowed themselves to become so desperate that it has inflated women's ego so they think "all these guys want me, I'm a valuable commodity".
I suppose every woman should actually be grateful that this is your mantra, that way they don't have to listen to your self-indulgent, misguided ramblings.
Y'know, maybe if you let go of your resentment, you'd drop some of that frustration and desperation you're carrying, and maybe, just maybe, you'd be a more approachable person in real life.