34 year old man, not feeling too optimistic about 2022.

[Forgottendanfan]

It probably wouldn't be improved for him, but how can you be so sure that yours would be improved by having

It probably wouldn't be improved for him, but how can you be so sure that yours would be improved by having sex?

It's not as simplistic as just having sex. It's the validation of being desired by somebody, the feeling of intimacy that most living beings crave, the experience and excitement of being so close with someone you care about etc.

I don't expect that my life would drastically improve simply by having sex. It's everything else surrounding it that I sometimes feel myself longing for.

 

[TheRealCallie]

It's not as simplistic as just having sex. It's the validation of being desired by somebody, the feeling of intimacy that most living beings crave, the experience and excitement of being so close with someone you care about etc.

I don't expect that my life would drastically improve simply by having sex. It's everything else surrounding it that I sometimes feel myself longing for.

And I get why you feel that way, but you also have to remember that you don't know everything that comes with all that. It's not all rainbows and sparkles. For some, there is some truly disturbing **** that goes with it. For others, there's not. Maybe you would get lucky and have mostly good experiences, but you have to remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
And you're right, we can't understand what it's like for you, but the other side of the coin is that you can't understand what it's like for some of us.

That said, I hope you can find what you want out of life. Just keep in mind that you will get more out of life with a positive attitude than a negative one. Self fulfilling prophecy and all that.

 

[Forgottendanfan]

And I get why you feel that way, but you also have to remember that you don't know everything that comes with all that. It's not all rainbows and sparkles. For some, there is some truly disturbing **** that goes with it. For others, there's not. Maybe you would get lucky and have mostly good experiences, but you have to remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
And you're right, we can't understand what it's like for you, but the other side of the coin is that you can't understand what it's like for some of us.

That said, I hope you can find what you want out of life. Just keep in mind that you will get more out of life with a positive attitude than a negative one. Self fulfilling prophecy and all that.

I appreciate all of that. Thank you.

 

[Vali]

Thanks my friend. I hope so too, but realistically there's no reason why 2022 should be any better for me than previous years.

Make a change, a radical change in your daily life and many good things will come to you. You can not expect a change by doing the same thing. Make everyday something that you have not done before. Something good for yourself.
Life will change for you and you got nothing to lose anyway.

 

[lonelygeorge]

Hell, I would love to have sex for sex sake. There nothing wrong with two consenting adults. Not all the time anyway. I haven't had a roll in the hay in a good while. You know what Darwin said? He said, "What you don't use, you lose." One of these days I'm going to zipp down my fly to go pee and big puff of dust is going to come out.

 

[lonelygeorge]

I miss the kind of sex that Elton John sang about. "Rolling like thunder under the covers." I was getting some oral relaxation from this sweet young thing on night. This woman took pride in her work. Another time in New Orleans, it was so hot at night, I'd sleep in the nude. Just a sheet on the bed, maybe a topsheet. Sweating like crazy with our juices mixing together and rolling around in the bed. Afterwards, having a cigarette and a beer, feeling more relaxed inside. Having a few laughs.

 

[lonelygeorge]

Well, I hope that I didn't offend anyone. Have a good night and Happy New Year. It's gotta be better then 2020 and '21, right. Those two years sucked.

 

[Sarah G]

 

[Forgottendanfan]

I miss the kind of sex that Elton John sang about. "Rolling like thunder under the covers." I was getting some oral relaxation from this sweet young thing on night. This woman took pride in her work. Another time in New Orleans, it was so hot at night, I'd sleep in the nude. Just a sheet on the bed, maybe a topsheet. Sweating like crazy with our juices mixing together and rolling around in the bed. Afterwards, having a cigarette and a beer, feeling more relaxed inside. Having a few laughs.

You're a grade A arsehole. **** off.

 

[Adamridge79]

Jesus..I don't pretend to know how being that long without carnal knowledge would affect one, but, as in my case, it's worse (personal opinion) to know it and not have it, than to never know at all. Doubt that helps, but figured you posted for any interaction

 

[Forgottendanfan]

Jesus..I don't pretend to know how being that long without carnal knowledge would affect one, but, as in my case, it's worse (personal opinion) to know it and not have it, than to never know at all. Doubt that helps, but figured you posted for any interaction

It doesn't help. You know not of what you speak.

 

[Adamridge79]

No, I don't know. I stated that. But. Being angry at people trying to understand and be kind and helpful, doesn't exactly promote your agenda

 

[Forgottendanfan]

Kind and helpful? You came across as anything but.

 

[Adamridge79]

Ah...was I supposed to commiserate?

 

[Forgottendanfan]

No, but starting the post by saying "Jesus", as if to say I'm some kind of unfathomable freak, did seem a trifle unnecessary to say the least.

 

[Adamridge79]

Ok, I will grant you that without the ability of inflection...does sound harsh. I was just trying to say I couldn't fathom that, so I don't fully understand how you feel. That is my bad

 

[Forgottendanfan]

Fair enough. Thanks for the acknowledgement at least.

 

[Adamridge79]

Think of it like this..my non existant friend tells me his woman has been cheating on him...I would be Jesus...hard bud

 

[Adamridge79]

Not..Jesus!!!

 

[Forgottendanfan]

With respect, I've no idea what you're talking about.