I think this thread has more validity than most would think. The ability to promote yourself is a skill that is vital to a) finding a job and b) finding a partner.
Let's face it. Most love in the world is conditional. Like or not, to survive better, we need to work on making ourselves more loveable. I guess the more confident posters would say "I don't need to promote myself. I don't even have to try." Well the rest of us do. I am not naturally cool. My partner taught me to wear more fashionable clothes. Now I can choose them myself.
Also I am interested how conscious posters are of gaining a high score reputation here. Sounds so trivial but human beings can be pretty darn petty. I know I can be. And yes I care about my score. Thankfully someone has got me off the dreaded zero. I guess it's a reminder not to take forums too seriously as well. All in fun.