All the single people..all the single people.

[WildernessWildChild]

I simply cannot resist this- I'm the perfect match

Hmmm, let's see- I'm 47 (I just learned here on ALL my generation is responsible for the woes of the world- sorry folks)

That is false.

Seriously, I just turned 47

 

[jaguarundi]

I simply cannot resist this- I'm the perfect match

Hmmm, let's see- I'm 47 (I just learned here on ALL my generation is responsible for the woes of the world- sorry folks)

That is false.

Seriously, I just turned 47

And yet still a complete little *******, as we (often) see

 

[WildernessWildChild]

I simply cannot resist this- I'm the perfect match

Hmmm, let's see- I'm 47 (I just learned here on ALL my generation is responsible for the woes of the world- sorry folks)

That is false.

Seriously, I just turned 47

And yet still a complete little *******, as we (often) see

Little?

 

[jaguarundi]

I simply cannot resist this- I'm the perfect match

Hmmm, let's see- I'm 47 (I just learned here on ALL my generation is responsible for the woes of the world- sorry folks)

That is false.

Seriously, I just turned 47

And yet still a complete little *******, as we (often) see

Little?

Oh yeah ... Eve shoved her hiking boots up there recently didn't she? That must have enlarged things considerably. . .

 

[WildernessWildChild]

^I gotta wonder about you two and your proclivity regarding the placement of strange objects into unwilling orfices.

 

[EveWasFramed]

^I gotta wonder about you two and your proclivity regarding the placement of strange objects into unwilling orfices.

You never said yours was unwilling.

 

[NeverSunset]

Isn't it not the right place to argue, or joke that way, or whatever it is(i have no idea tbh) ?

 

[WildernessWildChild]

^theres rules?

 

[jaguarundi]

^theres rules?

"It's not worth doing something unless someone, somewhere would much rather you weren't doing it."

 

[TheRealCallie]

^theres rules?

"It's not worth doing something unless someone, somewhere would much rather you weren't doing it."

I would have went with "when the object is plural, you need to use ARE, not IS"

 

[Littlesecret]

Hey, I'm single and ready to mingle (eurgh even as joke that saying makes me sick)
Ha, what a lovely impression I'm giving you all.
I never really saw this website as anything but just sharing and helping with problems but reading jase's story is starting to fill me with some hope, or maybe no one will ever reply to me and I'll die alone.

P.s. I'm an optimist!

 

[WildernessWildChild]

^theres rules?

"It's not worth doing something unless someone, somewhere would much rather you weren't doing it."

I would have went with "when the object is plural, you need to use ARE, not IS"

A sphincter says what? *cups hands to ears and listens intently*

 

[Triple Bogey]

Hey, I'm single and ready to mingle (eurgh even as joke that saying makes me sick)
Ha, what a lovely impression I'm giving you all.
I never really saw this website as anything but just sharing and helping with problems but reading jase's story is starting to fill me with some hope, or maybe no one will ever reply to me and I'll die alone.

P.s. I'm an optimist!

I think this site doubles up as a dating site. Seems a lot of it going on. Which is nice.

 

[Disaffected]

Male late 20's and still single, I've isolated myself due to social phobias and low self-esteem so its never been realistic for me to be in a relationship.

 

[panfruit]

Male late 20's and still single, I've isolated myself due to social phobias and low self-esteem so its never been realistic for me to be in a relationship.

Keep that up and you'll waste the window of youth and then unrealistic turns into unlikely and so on. Get out before you're old and moldy; or become old and moldy *and* bitter, full of regrets, addicted to Matlock reruns.

"Oh, what could have been, but now isn't possible! If only I'd have tackled my fears. All is lost, woe fo' sho'!"

It won't be too long before the advantage of youth has left you, and then you're screwed.

 

[Grackle]

Can't argue with that.

 

[MTrip]

Male late 20's and still single, I've isolated myself due to social phobias and low self-esteem so its never been realistic for me to be in a relationship.

Keep that up and you'll waste the window of youth and then unrealistic turns into unlikely and so on. Get out before you're old and moldy; or become old and moldy *and* bitter, full of regrets, addicted to Matlock reruns.

"Oh, what could have been, but now isn't possible! If only I'd have tackled my fears. All is lost, woe fo' sho'!"

It won't be too long before the advantage of youth has left you, and then you're screwed.

Or escorts, if you're an older man who can afford that sort of thing. (I can't afford the hired play but a lot of divorced business execs use them.) Panfruit speaks truth here although Matlock has gone out of fashion....Might be Cheers & soap operas now. I isolated most of the time, had a couple relationships one of which was serious, & neither one worked out. Now it's middle aged solitude & dislike of the young.

 

[Disaffected]

Male late 20's and still single, I've isolated myself due to social phobias and low self-esteem so its never been realistic for me to be in a relationship.

Keep that up and you'll waste the window of youth and then unrealistic turns into unlikely and so on. Get out before you're old and moldy; or become old and moldy *and* bitter, full of regrets, addicted to Matlock reruns.

"Oh, what could have been, but now isn't possible! If only I'd have tackled my fears. All is lost, woe fo' sho'!"

It won't be too long before the advantage of youth has left you, and then you're screwed.

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[Littlesecret]

Did you not read what he said? He has social phobias it's not a thing you can just switch off and think 'I'm young, I need to get out there' !
I know you think you might be helping but comment came across ignorant.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Did you not read what he said? He has social phobias it's not a thing you can just switch off and think 'I'm young, I need to get out there' !
I know you think you might be helping but comment came across ignorant.

Actually, what panfruit said IS helpful. It would have been more polite had it been said a different way, but it certainly isn't ignorant.
Social phobia is a mindset, just like any other phobia. If you think you can't do it, you can't. If you start thinking to yourself that you CAN get out there and do something, then, well...you can. So yes, getting out there and getting is done is EXACTLY what you need to think. That way, eventually, you will convince yourself that you CAN do it.