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Drew88 said:
nerdygirl said:
Silly men. I suppose this conversation is the thing that would be different if I was male... and it would be such a shame if I couldn't have such chats.

M'eh it doesn't do much without a visual

Are you saying you'd like a visual of me as a male? 'Cause all you have to do is imagine some Korean actor. I forget his name, but we look rather similar... not sure he'd look good in a schoolmarm outfit.
 
Lonely women are just women. Nobody pays them any mind. Single-for-life men are the epitome loser potential rapist/paedophiles, and inheritors of 'privilege' to boot so undeserving of sympathy.

Women tend to support one another.

Men are socialized to see each other as competitors, think nothing of slagging off lesser men especially if it's to ingratiate themselves with women.

Just throw that fugly guy under the bus to get a cheap laugh.

So yeah in terms of isolation, self perception, it can be worse

Edit ; oh, this thread was meant to be light hearted.
 
Oh god, now it's going to become this.

Rdor, please stop beating that drum, because sooner or later someone is going to come along to prove you wrong.
 
nerdygirl said:
Drew88 said:
nerdygirl said:
Silly men. I suppose this conversation is the thing that would be different if I was male... and it would be such a shame if I couldn't have such chats.

M'eh it doesn't do much without a visual

Are you saying you'd like a visual of me as a male? 'Cause all you have to do is imagine some Korean actor. I forget his name, but we look rather similar... not sure he'd look good in a schoolmarm outfit.


Tom boy girls are hot too !! Especially where you unwrap 'em !!
 
nerdygirl said:
Drew88 said:
nerdygirl said:
Silly men. I suppose this conversation is the thing that would be different if I was male... and it would be such a shame if I couldn't have such chats.

M'eh it doesn't do much without a visual

Are you saying you'd like a visual of me as a male? 'Cause all you have to do is imagine some Korean actor. I forget his name, but we look rather similar... not sure he'd look good in a schoolmarm outfit.

No I meant you you as you. What I said didn't really fit what I quoted.
 
I don't really don't see the perception that men can't develop strong friendships. I've always grown up to believe you don't cross a friend, even in the very masculine sense of friendship, there's a brotherhood notion to it just the same as women. Someone said they worry about being labeled gay if they appear too close as friends. I think that's a real shame to be honest. I also think women can be very bitchy to each other. Men are a bit more in your face about not liking someone or will make the point they are tolerating each other, women will normally say "Hi!!! How are you???" then as they walk off say "i can't stand that bitch" or at their worst just plain insult every woman that walks in the pub based on what they're wearing, that's a social hobby for some groups of women. I honestly think men don't spend that much time looking round the room sizing up the 'competition', although if you run into one you are far more likely to get punched!

Think of bullying at school, male or female they can both be just as nasty. Good and bad, takes all sorts etc etc.
 
Being a man is just like being a woman, like being a kid, like having dyslexia, or being paralized, or being so smart or popular and gorgeous. We are delt with diffirent cards in life and what makes a contented person different from a lonely one is the way they percieve the cards delt on them and the way they use it for their advantage
 
swirlturtle said:
Being a man is just like being a woman, like being a kid, like having dyslexia, or being paralized, or being so smart or popular and gorgeous. We are delt with diffirent cards in life and what makes a contented person different from a lonely one is the way they percieve the cards delt on them and the way they use it for their advantage

I've won many a hand bluffing with 7,2 off suit. :cool:
 
rdor said:
Lonely women are just women. Nobody pays them any mind. Single-for-life men are the epitome loser potential rapist/paedophiles, and inheritors of 'privilege' to boot so undeserving of sympathy.

Women tend to support one another.

Men are socialized to see each other as competitors, think nothing of slagging off lesser men especially if it's to ingratiate themselves with women.

Just throw that fugly guy under the bus to get a cheap laugh.

So yeah in terms of isolation, self perception, it can be worse

Edit ; oh, this thread was meant to be light hearted.

LeaningIntoTheMuse said:
Oh god, now it's going to become this.

Rdor, please stop beating that drum, because sooner or later someone is going to come along to prove you wrong.

Or give you time off from the forum if it keeps up rdor
 
The guys I know are supportive of their male friends. Maybe it depends on the company you keep.

Also, I'm glad nobody actually wanted me to be a man in a schoolmarm outfit. I think my blouse required breasts to look right.
 
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:
I am very supportive of breasts.

Your motto for life is:
"I was told I could become anything, so I became a bra:
 

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