Cheaters?

[Drew88]

OP, you did the wrong thing that's why they banned you from the site. It's not up to you to come out and say "this person is a cheater, consider that before dating them".

Was not banned from the site just from posting on the forms and the posted deleted. Deleted my own account.

Please, O-please keep shotting me. I deserve to be spit and stepped on, I am nothing better.

 

[Parabolani]

OP, you did the wrong thing that's why they banned you from the site. It's not up to you to come out and say "this person is a cheater, consider that before dating them".

Was not banned from the site just from posting on the forms and the posted deleted. Deleted my own account.

Please, O-please keep shotting me. I deserve to be spit and stepped on, I am nothing better.

Whatever dude, you asked.

 

[Bones]

No - people should mind their own business.

Besides, there are normally red flags if a person wants to see.

Personally speaking, I was always aware of the red flags but always gave a person a chance; and if they cheated, I ended the relationship.

Personally, I think people should mind their own business; however, I do understand wanting justice to prevail because cheating is wrong.

So you would not want to know if the person you are interested in has a history that MAY make them a little bit more untrust worthy?

 

[VanillaCreme]

OP, you did the wrong thing that's why they banned you from the site. It's not up to you to come out and say "this person is a cheater, consider that before dating them".

Was not banned from the site just from posting on the forms and the posted deleted. Deleted my own account.

Please, O-please keep shotting me. I deserve to be spit and stepped on, I am nothing better.

I don't think he meant to be harsh. I, shockingly, agree with him. I'm sorry that someone did you wrong. I've been there myself. I found out on my own that my ex had another girl. He still to this day has never come out and told me, and he never was honest with me about it. However, I don't wish terrible relationships on him. I think he'll do that on his own just fine. I don't think that all people who cheat are terrible. Some people just find it to be quite possibly the only way out.

I think you feel hurt right now, and that hurt is causing you to want to lash out and want to state that this person is a cheater, but to be honest, you don't know how she'll treat other guys. If it's a sorry cycle she'll go through time and time again, she'll have to break out of that cycle herself. You shouting to the world what she did to you won't really help. It'll make you feel better for the moment, and that's about all.