diagnosis

[Guest]

Can you say: Snarky unnecessary comment? Contribute to the dialogue in a meaninful way, or butt out.

:-D

It looks like you opened the other thread after my supposedly "snarky" comment. I guess you realized I was right.

 

[AaronAgassi]

Oh, pother!

 

[lilyelk]

I tell you; my lonliness doesn't feel psychological at all. It feels horribly physical at times. I think it if would just stay in my psychological I might be able to put it in my hypothetical box where it belongs, burn it, and never feel it again.

I suppose that would be the point in which I become bitter past the point of no return...

 

[AaronAgassi]

I fear that you under vastly under estimate the psychological.

 

[lilyelk]

Sigh. You know what; I might agree with you on that. My own has certainly stunned me lately...

 

[AaronAgassi]

It does not pay to invalidate your true self.

 

[lilyelk]

Ack! The word invalidate. Right up there with judgmental.

Maybe it doesn't pay to invalidate myself - but with the changes I am going through right now I am comfortable with the fact that I might not really know how I work right now. Something isn't going right. I just need to figure out what. Or it could be this is me working out right and I am just not comfortable with it yet.

I know better than to separate my psychological and my physical; but it doesn't mean I don't still try to do it. If I could just wall up all those bad physical feelings would go away...

 

[AaronAgassi]

By invalidation, I meant dismissal. Whereas I certainly would encourage your efforts at better self awareness.

 

[lilyelk]

Fortunately, I couldn't dismiss myself if I tried right now. And actually, if I hope to suceed at least for myself that is probably a good thing. Maybe when you dismiss yourself is when you finally and completely give up.

When I hear the word invalidate I think dysfunctional family.

 

[AaronAgassi]

Indeed. And real world experiebce often is reflected in inner life.

 

[lilyelk]

Absolutely.

 

[Lost in the Oilfield]

This is no accident, sweetie. This is part of a careful plan.

Paraphrase:

One world government to rule them all, One ring to find them
One ring to take them all and in the darkness bind them.

Thats creepy :0