I don't like ice cold anything because it gives me a sore throat. But I would take a slightly chilled N/A beer with a can of room temperature tomato juice, please.
I don't really pay attention to what others wear unless it's very out of the ordinary. I have seen people in dollar stores who had their pajamas and bedroom slippers on and then I definitely notice.
I am exactly the same way and there are very few people that I want to have close to me. If they get into my aura, I back away.
Do you like to think of it as them intruding in your space/aura?