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Hauntyoueveryday

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Nowadays the only text messages that I get are from 404 number for twitter and the only phone calls that I get are from debt collectors.

No girls, no friends, no one really gets in contact with me. I have stopped using Twitter and Facebook lately as no one really seemed to care about my posts and it's better for my mental health to be off of it.

Anyone else have no one hitting them up?
 
I text one person at the moment, but before I've been without calls and texts from people for very long periods of time.
 
Work and wife text me - work if theres a problem, wife to check if I've arrived somewhere (I ride a motorbike). Hardly bother using my phone now.
 
Texts and call require an answer. Which I am happier to not have to come up with.
 
Not really.Only mom(of course). A nice friend I'm texting now.But before that nobody at all :(
 
I use my phone more as a watch and for scheduling than anything else. On the rare occasion that it does ring, I usually think it's a notification or reminder for something.
 
Dood. You can't just steal my word and the word of all prinnys everywhere and just use it as your username. I demand royalties.

I get txts and stuff. Do you guys bother texting others first? If I didn't do that im not sure how many txts I would get.
 
I have one person that texts and calls me, I guess 2 if you count my mother Heehee I wish I had friends to text, I don't know why I have unlimited texting in my phone plan. Haha
 
Hauntyoueveryday said:
Anyone else have no one hitting them up?


Well, I do. But I don't blame anyone since I am not burning the phone lines either.

I don't use Facebook or Twitter and have no plans on using it either. I send e-mails and call sometimes to people back home but that's it.
 
There's a high school friend who calls me now and again. I make an effort to call him too, since he's better at keeping in touch than others I know. Otherwise my cell phone is another device for me to access the Internet.
 
The only text messages and phone calls I get are from Bell offering promotions (which I've asked to be removed from their call list) or messages letting me know when my account comes due. Only other phone calls are wrong number callers. To be fair though very few have my number, only those who I wouldn't mind calling me know it.
 
no one texts me (except a friend at work when she doesn't want to say something via work equipment). No one calls me at all except for bill collectors and my pharmacy.
 
My mobile is just for emergencies (or notifications, calendar, clock etc.), so I tend not to make or receive social calls or texts on it.

I did use a landline 'phone regularly some years ago, when I was a student and had friends to socialise with.
 
3 long distance friends, maybe once a month - when I meet new people there is always some weeks of texting, that dwindle down fast once they discover we don't have much in common - mother, she doesn't dare to call, but probably if I didn't call her for two days she would call - my aunt used to call once or twice a week since I was small, but since last year we don't talk anymore.
 
I get a lot of calls, ALL OF THEM from a big company, the company that provides me network.
For the rest of the people, I am invisible.

Messages, a lot of them. I get great offers for setting my ringtone to this or that and some HUGE companies even offer me to have 100000000 likes on my facebook posts.....May be they don't know that this is the number of dislikes I would get if they had the dislike button in real life.
For the rest of the people, I am invisible.
But still, life goes on, and we wait for our death....

"Friends"? "Relatives"? What are thes things?
 
I would get some text messages once in a while from classmates this past year if they had questions about an assignment. But since I graduated last week, I am back to zero text messages and phone calls.

My phone battery drained last week and I haven't bothered charging it because I know there is nothing there. Most of the time I leave it on airplane mode that way I have to charge it even less. It has been like this for years since I lost all the little friends I did have. No one besides my parents would notice if I dropped off the planet.
 
Hauntyoueveryday said:
Nowadays the only text messages that I get are from 404 number for twitter and the only phone calls that I get are from debt collectors.

No girls, no friends, no one really gets in contact with me. I have stopped using Twitter and Facebook lately as no one really seemed to care about my posts and it's better for my mental health to be off of it.

Anyone else have no one hitting them up?

Yup, right here. I'm always the one making first contact. So one day I decided not to text or call anyone to see if anyone would contact me. Nothing. Oh well.
 
I can relate. For the most part, my boyfriend and a few people from his family call or text me. Every turn of the moon or so, I'd get a text from a friend or two but nothing substantial. :/ The realization that people don't really communicate with me actually doesn't bother me too much for the most part, except when I get a ring and find out that its just a stupid Sprint notification, which is disappointing compared to getting a hello from an actual person.

Considering how much I use my phone, I'll probably switch to a dumb phone once my smart phone breaks.
 

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