Flaws make you unique?

[AnonymousMe]

I don't know about you all, but I think that's BS, which is the main reason I started this thread.

For all you lucky couples in this forum, tell me the one thing you hate/detest/abhor the most about your partner.

By the way, no joke answers please, be honest and tell what you really dislike about him/her.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Flaws DO make you unique. That doesn't mean other people can't or won't be annoyed by them. There will generally always be something you don't like about your partner, but so what? People are different, so it's bound to happen.

That said, I'm not in a relationship, but I have been and things have annoyed me. Other things I disliked intensely.

 

[jd7]

Words help or hurt. Personally, I would think twice about using 'abhor' to describe someone I supposedly love. With such thoughts, we can condition ourselves to be overly critical or even cruel. My two cents...

 

[Seeker_2.0]

I've always hated lack of trust and possessiveness from my partners, without me giving them absolutely no cause. It's a major turn-off, makes you feel like a slave.

 

[PenDragon]

Doesn't apply to me I have no partner. But if it about general flaws in someone's personality then that is indeed unique, that's the thing which separate us from one another. Everyone is unique in his/her own way.

 

[Lola91]

Perfection is completely unique because no one is perfect

 

[Alma lost her spoon]

Everyone is individual, some may be more unique than others, loving someone truly means accepting their 'flaws', problems arise when we try to ignore such things, & try pretend to ourselves that a person is 'perfect'....if you love someone, love them & accept them for all the humanity they embody.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Everyone is individual, some may be more unique than others, loving someone truly means accepting their 'flaws', problems arise when we try to ignore such things, & try pretend to ourselves that a person is 'perfect'....if you love someone, love them & accept them for all the humanity they embody.

I was just thinking about this earlier. What makes someone basically overlook imperfections when they realize they like someone for who they are? At the time I was thinking about it, I really couldn't come up with an answer. Thinking more logically about it, I would say it's because we just like them. And this could be said about friends as well as significant others. Are the people I consider friends perfect? No, not in my eyes, not in their eyes, probably not in anyone's eye. But we still enjoy talking to each other.

I would have to say on a more emotional level, it's simply love. And to me, that's what love is. Accepting someone for who they are, regardless of anything else. It's caring about them, and having their back because you know they have yours. The logic in it is disappearing again, and I still don't really grasp the concept. It's more of a just do it kind of thing.

I don't know. As for the second question, what irritates me? The fact that my guy can't seem to make anything to eat on his own. I don't know if my cooking is magical to him or what, but certainly anyone is capable of finding at least a snack for themselves.

 

[differentlonelygirl]

One thing I hate? Hmmmmm... I hate myself, him? Idk he's the only one I love I even end up loving his bad parts... But I'd say I hate his brother sometimes .

I don't like the term flaws. We are human we are going to make mistakes, every rrelationship has them... Down to the relationship with your pet. Even pets make mistakes, makes us human.

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Perfection is completely unique because no one is perfect

Heh I like you already

 

[sothatwasmylife]

Oh well at least you hate his brother as well so it ain't all bad.

 

[ladyforsaken]

Everyone is individual, some may be more unique than others, loving someone truly means accepting their 'flaws', problems arise when we try to ignore such things, & try pretend to ourselves that a person is 'perfect'....if you love someone, love them & accept them for all the humanity they embody.

This, really.

That said, I don't like dishonesty. It ... tears me apart like nothing else.