Hey you've got to have both sides, a plain nice person is boring
I've said an awful lot of stuff that's been embarrassing, you'll have to poke me for this one because no doubt something will pop into my mind at some point and I'll cringe.
The trick for me that backfired, a friend of mine met this guy and she gave him her number. A few days later I was changing phones and sim cards so due to some technical thing I had a second phone number for a day. So I started texting her, flirting and such. It was all going well until I ended up arranging something with her, and I had to take her down, and he never showed up because he never knew about it (and of course she can't call him because the number expired after 24hrs)