The reason is that, if you've never experienced rejection, everyone wants you, all day, every day, it's hard for life to not always be about, 'you,' because it actually is. I will freely admit I'm vain, to a degree, self centered, to a degree; but, I'll admit it. Being attractive can be a curse, a horrible curse. I don't think people realize how awful of a curse it can be. So, I probably came at that from only one angle, and that bears out of previous experience I've had; but, of course the exception is not always the rule.
For me personally, I've known conceited self centered people who don't know what rejection is and therefore are entitled to everything. And, frankly, a highly attractive woman, who is also a doll, nice, caring genuine, and has her honeysuckle together, probably would have no business being interested in me, hah. So, I speak from a sore spot there.
People need to give up on the notions of narratives, stereo-types, and isms and ists. It just doesn't really work anymore, and it never did before anyway.
but, score me -1 negative on that one. I generalized, I shouldn't have. hah. One shouldn't envy the rich, or anyone, for that matter. I'm still a student of life, with barely passing grades, if not, I'm failing, hah. But I've got a keyboard **** it, watch out!