Sorry for the double post everyone.
As usual, I'm sort of in an awkward spot
This girl is presumably single, but she keeps having some kind of altercation with this guy from her home town. Whatever their problem is, it seems to be making her quite upset recently. I feel sort of powerless to help.
We were talking last week for a while and she seemed really pleased to be speaking to me. We were stood outside and she just kept talking to me until she was actually shaking from the cold (at which point I told her to go back indoors!)
Anyway, I said to her "Hey, sorry to keep bothering you." since I've offered to help her out with work she's missed several times, but she's never able to meet up.
She laughed, suddenly seemed really shy (perhaps embarrassed?) and said "No, you're not bothering me
at all. Not at all! You're doing me a huge favour."
I think she even said something like "I really appreciate it."
Plus she's always sitting with me when she can. When I greeted her last lecture she came to, she even sort of stroked my arm affectionately.
It's just so weird. I asked how she was two weeks ago and she sent me a message saying "I had a terrible weekend, I need to forget honeysuckle that's happening and concentrate on my work and present life I think. Thanks, see you soon xxx"
I'm assuming it's the guy, but urgh! Nothing's ever just simple, I swear.
She seems really sincere and honest, so I don't think she'd be trying to cheat or use me. It's more like she genuinely enjoys my company and would like to be closer, but there's something holding her back. We exchanged a compliment a week or two ago and she was sort of really shy and happy that I said she looks nice. Then she strongly hinted that she likes me as well, so I'm hoping I'm not simply imagining a romantic attachment.
I can sort of even see it in her eyes, when she goes embarrassed like she did in that conversation. Sort of a regret or upset that she can't be around me more? I know that feeling well myself.
So I'm at a loss. Any ideas at all on what I can do here? I don't want to start cuddling her or anything all of a sudden, because I wouldn't feel right if she's going out with this other guy.
At the same time, I hate how I just can't do anything to help her to just focus on her work and be happy
EDIT - I will add that she has met up with me countless times for hot drinks now. She invites me along and everything, just for us to talk. I'm so confused >_<