LoneKiller, what you say resounds 100% with me, what I found out recently is that people who behave like that (some of my relatives too) in first instance they insult *their own* intelligence, and that usually means that they lie to themselves even before lying to other people. And all that lying indicates such a huge discomfort with what they are that they are better left alone, because they will never ever admit being dishonest, because that would mean also admitting the mountain of BS they told themselves all their lives. At some point I realized that the anger was making *me* feel bad, and that they would only feel self-righteous until the end of time, so I gave up wanting honesty from them, and now we all feel better (and don't talk too much anyway).LoneKiller said:
Very few things piss me off more than people who are phony in their behavior and how they treat me. A strong example would be my aunt and uncle. They're the type who wear Loonies in their penny loafers if you know what I'm saying.
This kind of behavior is an insult to my intelligence. I'd rather they speak their minds and be honest. If they don't know or care about what I say, tell me. I'd have more respect for them. I understand that they are family, but **** that. That doesn't give them carte blanche to be insincere pricks.
LK
LoneKiller said:Hi Everyone. I hope this thread finds you all well. We all have worries. Post them.
1. My father is 76yo. Not a damn day goes by do I not think about when he is going to die and what life without him will be like.
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