if love was strong then you cannot, if you hate him/her now for some reason then ignore what he/she did with you. why do you wanna choose pain way? listen you can but its hard work how to do it in some easy steps here we go:-Idol Minos said:How long did it take before you stopped constantly thinking about him/her? Details please.
wow! agree hereSophiaGrace said:Short the words,
and long the days.
The feelings pass,
but memories stay.
Their voices wind,
which blow away.
Their faces all forgotten.
And then there are those,
who hurt you still,
their faces stay,
and come what will,
their memories never forgotten.
Juliet said:Ten years and counting... Sounds pathetic, I know.
TheSkaFish said:I haven't. The wounds from late 2013 and lasting all of last year are still as fresh now as they were then. I still remember all the sweet things she used to say, the way she used to be with me, always wanting to talk to me. I still hope she'll break up with that dirtbag. I spent all of last year hoping that, though. I get by telling myself that people break up all the time. I still want her to come back and say that it was all a terrible mistake but that she's back now. I still plan to talk to her again, when I have more going for me and can look like I have my life together more. And once I am strong enough to talk to her. The last time I tried was November, but the things she said sent me into a storm of anger, hatred, and sadness which lasted for days. I simply don't have time to feel that way right now, so I'm putting off talking to her indefinitely.
Sometimes I just want to tell her to burn in hell and block her on all my social media and delete all of our conversations and make it like she never existed. But I don't because sometimes I just want her to go back to how we used to be, all night talks, all the sweet things she'd say. I keep telling myself, she could break up. She could get bored of him someday. Maybe we could reconnect if I ever address all of the issues she had with me that kept me from being more than a friend to her. I don't want to throw that chance away, however small it may be. I have to keep hoping, because there's no one better to replace her with.
The thing is, even if she did become free once more, even if she started up telling me sweet things like she used to, I just don't know if I could trust her ever again.
TheSkaFish said:I haven't. The wounds from late 2013 and lasting all of last year are still as fresh now as they were then. I still remember all the sweet things she used to say, the way she used to be with me, always wanting to talk to me. I still hope she'll break up with that dirtbag. I spent all of last year hoping that, though. I get by telling myself that people break up all the time. I still want her to come back and say that it was all a terrible mistake but that she's back now. I still plan to talk to her again, when I have more going for me and can look like I have my life together more. And once I am strong enough to talk to her. The last time I tried was November, but the things she said sent me into a storm of anger, hatred, and sadness which lasted for days. I simply don't have time to feel that way right now, so I'm putting off talking to her indefinitely.
Sometimes I just want to tell her to burn in hell and block her on all my social media and delete all of our conversations and make it like she never existed. But I don't because sometimes I just want her to go back to how we used to be, all night talks, all the sweet things she'd say. I keep telling myself, she could break up. She could get bored of him someday. Maybe we could reconnect if I ever address all of the issues she had with me that kept me from being more than a friend to her. I don't want to throw that chance away, however small it may be. I have to keep hoping, because there's no one better to replace her with.
The thing is, even if she did become free once more, even if she started up telling me sweet things like she used to, I just don't know if I could trust her ever again.
stork_error said:Stop communicating with the person, create activities in your life to keep you buzy and then just wait it out. The brain is made in a way that does forget, trust the process, its human and it happens naturally.
She-ra said:^ I highly doubt you have ever experienced real love then. To get over someone you have been in love is not so black and white.
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