Restless soul said:
This is a revised topic of another thread I posted.
It was having to do with being ignored and blown off and people showing lack of interest in communication usually via text. Since that is typically the main method of communication today. So to get right to the point.
When I start to feel I am being ignored or blown off for no reason that I am aware of usually. I tend to get angry frustrated and wonder what I have done. And take it very personally. And start to dread the thoughts of ffeeling alone and isolated once again.
The first thing to do is DON'T FREAK OUT. That is the WORST thing you can do, since that is considered neediness, which is considered one of the WORST traits a person can have, especially a guy. Personally I don't quite get it, but the more I look into it, the more it seems like that is what most people think. I've made this mistake before and it's always a bad move. You really don't ever want to do this.
Fight the urge to send another text, or to ask them if anything's wrong, or why they haven't responded, or anything like that - you have to just remind yourself that double-texting is the wrong answer.
You just have to wait. Sometimes you'll get a reply, but it will be late for whatever reason. You might have to wait a couple hours, days, even a week or so. Then, if you feel like it, try texting them again. The idea is to look like you aren't just sitting around waiting to hear from them because it makes them feel like they are above you. One of the biggest things I've discovered about social interaction is that it's crucial to come off as equals, and you never want to act like you're below the other person, you never want to act like you are kissing up to them or begging for their approval. It seems like games, and it still weird me out but this seems to be how most people work.
While you're waiting, try to figure out why you might not have gotten a reply. Generally, if you want to talk to someone you need to say more than "hey"/"what's up"/"how's it going". Try asking them something open-ended, which is something that requires more than a yes or no answer. Try to get them to think somehow. It might help to ask them about themselves, something they are interested in, something you are both interested in, or something you talked about last time you talked.