How To Introduce Yourself To Women

[LoneKiller]

Well, I'm not a woman, but these seem to be pretty good.

http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Introduce-Yourself-to-Women&id=1416019

 

[Lollipop286]

Pffff this line works...every time....."Hey sexy lady, wanna come home with me (hello), I have koalas!"

Heh...just kidding....don't do that...really don't.....>.>

 

[theSmokingRabbit]

Well, I'm not a woman, but these seem to be pretty good.

Pffff this line works...every time....."Hey sexy lady, wanna come home with me (hello), I have koalas!"

I'm going to refrain from joining you two on this little endeavor until some women come by and comment...until then I will sit back and enjoy this thoroughly... Hehe :opcorn::


Discuss!

 

[Lollipop286]

I am a woman dammit! lol

 

[theSmokingRabbit]

.... o.o


In the process of not trying to get into trouble I have gotten myself into trouble... (I should be used to this by now.)


My apologies Sterling.

 

[Lollipop286]

*sigh*...its okay....you're not the first person who thought I was a dude on here -_-. Thankfully I don't look like one....anyways...let's look through these tips to introduce yourself and my opinion on it.

1. Establish a sense of manly style, but don't go overboard with it.
Well...what even is 'manly style"?

2. Don't be afraid to go after what you really want. If you think your not good enough for a particular girl, then chances are she will feel the exact same way. Just be confident and do your thing.
I agree.

3. Watch and learn. See how other successful men are doing it, and model that success with the woman of your dreams.
Meh...you can watch and see how other guys do it and all....but what if the girl you want doesn't fall for that kind of stuff? Or what if you can't even come close to acting like the guy you were watching?

4. Instead of presenting yourself, let her feel like she is the presentation of the evening.
........what if she doesn't like all the attention?

5. Do not be afraid of rejection. Everyone will get rejected at some point in their life. EVERYONE! Think of rejection as an opportunity to learn and better yourself. Think to yourself "what did I do wrong and how can I better myself?"
Agreed.

6. You don't always have to meet women at loud clubs. Sports bars, gyms and even online-communities or dating sites are other great places to meet women.
Heh....meet all these lonely women here (hello), but really....finding is a girlfriend at a bar...is not a good idea in my opinion, so agreed.

7. Don't be afraid to talk to women in every circumstance in life! You have to always be on the prowl if you want to expand your chances of success. This will also give you the practice you need to help overcome fears of meeting new people. It will also help you build confidence and rapport with women.
Agreed.

8. Whatever you do, always use a smile. Smiles are infectious and can be your best weapon to let women open up to you. After all, who can refuse an attractive smile?
My suggestion on this...practice smiling. Some people don't realize this, but sometimes...people's smiles are really creepy looking...that's not attractive. So stare in the mirror a bit and see what kind of smile looks best on you.

9. If she is with friends, make contact with her friend first. Afterwards you can zone in on her. This way her friends won't think you are some random creep trying to get laid.
Eh....I don't really agree to this. If he were to talk to my friends first, then go for me...I'd think he WAS looking for ***, just got turned down my friends or he didn't like any of them.

Anyways, I don't think this article really tells you how to introduce yourself to women, as the title says, but some of the tips are alright. Not every person is going to think the same though. Not every girl is going to fall for the same **** so you can't approach every woman the same way and win every time.

 

[nerdygirl]

Aww, I was hoping more females would respond to this and I could time it just right so I 'd be Girl 6! (you know, like the movie, with the girl who worked on the phone... never mind.)

1. Establish a sense of manly style, but don't go overboard with it.
~Manly style? This... sounds like something weird you'd hear about from some weirdo in an anime. Ha, ha! I will seduce her with my Manly Style!

2. Don't be afraid to go after what you really want. If you think your not good enough for a particular girl, then chances are she will feel the exact same way. Just be confident and do your thing.
~Yes.

3. Watch and learn. See how other successful men are doing it, and model that success with the woman of your dreams.
~Some of it, sure... but if you're going to do that, you'll need to master whatever it is. Otherwise, it will feel unnatural to both of you.

4. Instead of presenting yourself, let her feel like she is the presentation of the evening.
~Sure... but pay attention to how she reacts. She might feel uncomfortable if you keep putting the focus on her.

5. Do not be afraid of rejection. Everyone will get rejected at some point in their life. EVERYONE! Think of rejection as an opportunity to learn and better yourself. Think to yourself "what did I do wrong and how can I better myself?"
~Every failure should be a learning lesson.

6. You don't always have to meet women at loud clubs. Sports bars, gyms and even online-communities or dating sites are other great places to meet women.
~Personally, I think clubs are the worst place to meet women. Girls don't go clubbing to meet their next boyfriends. They go to hang out with friends, get a few numbers just to feel better about themselves, and maybe hook up if they're that kinda gal.

7. Don't be afraid to talk to women in every circumstance in life! You have to always be on the prowl if you want to expand your chances of success. This will also give you the practice you need to help overcome fears of meeting new people. It will also help you build confidence and rapport with women.
~On the prowl? Easy, tiger. Make sure it's an appropriate time and place. Not "every" circumstance works.

8. Whatever you do, always use a smile. Smiles are infectious and can be your best weapon to let women open up to you. After all, who can refuse an attractive smile?
~A sincere smile! If you don't actually feel like smiling, try just not looking mean. If you really want to smile without having your spirit in it, then you have to be careful. Do not look like you're conspiring to kill Batman. Not too big, make sure it reaches your eyes. Try thinking of something happy at the time.

9. If she is with friends, make contact with her friend first. Afterwards you can zone in on her. This way her friends won't think you are some random creep trying to get laid.
~? That sounds weird. I would possibly think you failed with my friend or changed your mind about her. Neither one sounds good.

 

[IgnoredOne]

BE A MANLY MAN.

wtf.

lol

 

[nerdygirl]

I suppose a girly man would have a pink tutu. The opposite of pink is green. What is the opposite of tutu? Spikey leather pants?

 

[Lollipop286]

So....he's wearing green spikey leather pants?

 

[IgnoredOne]

I'll give a shot to actually processing the list.

1. Establish a sense of manly style, but don't go overboard with it.

Still hilarious. Be true to yourself, and yes, that 'yourself' should probably include at least something which is traditionally masculine. But until you've internalized it, this entire notion just sounds funny.

2. Don't be afraid to go after what you really want. If you think your not good enough for a particular girl, then chances are she will feel the exact same way. Just be confident and do your thing.
I agree.

Be assertive.

http://changingminds.org/techniques/assertiveness/assertiveness.htm

3. Watch and learn. See how other successful men are doing it, and model that success with the woman of your dreams.

Worth it. Acting like someoen can make it real, in fact, or at least give you valuable lessons. Its foolish to think that it'll work on 'the girl of your dreams', but it'll work on at least some women and that degree of confidence is valuable.

4. Instead of presenting yourself, let her feel like she is the presentation of the evening.

What does this even mean? Don't bother trying to impress someone overtly, of course. Letting someone talk about him/herself, especially if it can be couched in positive terms, is always a good thing.

5. Do not be afraid of rejection. Everyone will get rejected at some point in their life. EVERYONE! Think of rejection as an opportunity to learn and better yourself. Think to yourself "what did I do wrong and how can I better myself?"

I want pink rejection slips.

6. You don't always have to meet women at loud clubs. Sports bars, gyms and even online-communities or dating sites are other great places to meet women.

Of course.

7. Don't be afraid to talk to women in every circumstance in life! You have to always be on the prowl if you want to expand your chances of success. This will also give you the practice you need to help overcome fears of meeting new people. It will also help you build confidence and rapport with women.

Never be afraid to talk to people. Make every challenge an opportunity to grow.

8. Whatever you do, always use a smile. Smiles are infectious and can be your best weapon to let women open up to you. After all, who can refuse an attractive smile?

Practice smiling, and make sure that it doesn't come off as artificial. Method acting, in truth, is probably one of the better ways.

9. If she is with friends, make contact with her friend first. Afterwards you can zone in on her. This way her friends won't think you are some random creep trying to get laid.

No idea. I'm more objective oriented than this, personally.

 

[paulo]

Pffff this line works...every time....."Hey sexy lady, wanna come home with me (hello), I have koalas!"

Heh...just kidding....don't do that...really don't.....>.>

aaah comon... how can this not work

unles koalas is code for something else ?? is it ??

 

[DreamerDeceiver]

In the rare event that I introduce myself, I usually try a simple "hi" or "hello" and comment about something in the area. Sometimes I would take a shot at an honest compliment about the girl. Though I'm utterly ignored regardless of what I say.

 

[SofiasMami]

The list is pretty decent advice (except for the "approach her friend first" advice - forget about that). But it's quite generic and it doesn't give enough specifics on how to do what they're recommending. I don't see it as being really useful in real life situations.

Teresa

 

[Lollipop286]

Pffff this line works...every time....."Hey sexy lady, wanna come home with me (hello), I have koalas!"

Heh...just kidding....don't do that...really don't.....>.>

aaah comon... how can this not work

unles koalas is code for something else ?? is it ??

AWEEEE! Look at the cute little koala!! <3

Too bad it's....FAKE!

 

[Lonesome Crow]

but if I go talking to different chicks all the time...people will think Im a man whore.
Is a man whore consider a manly kind of man?

LIke wtf?...Everytime i see a nice set of **** and ***, its natural for me to smile.
I'll smile even more when shes on top of me riding me and smearing her ****s in my face.