Humping animals.

[ShybutHi]

I just do not understand. Why do 99% of the people out there seem to think they should have and want sex pretty much as soon as it is legal for them. I think most people let their primal insticts run rampant and they do not even know it. Some of my closest friends are just like this... They talk to each other and make comments about sex as if it is just nothing. As if it is basically just an emotionless activity which is about YOU and not also about the other person involved.

My gosh it is so selfish and sometimes I just feel like saying to these people... "You are ******* pathetic!"

I believe sex should be an act enjoyed by two people who actually have some affection for each other... Whether they are just in a new relationship, just have alot of affection for each other or married. Not just finding some random person when you are out and about and having sex with them. I mean yeah ofcourse it would be enjoyable but surely it sort of degrades the whole act. Basically I think there should mainly be a MENTAL connection with the person and not just physical. :club:

 

[Montreal Skye]

I agree with you Shy, actually I was just having a discussion with someone on this subject! For me, sex is more than just humping, lol...humping. Having a deep connection with someone is important to me before I would even consider that kind of intimacy. Not everyone will agree, some just do it for instant gratification, I'm more into long term and meaningful gratification. I think it intensifies the experience, like you said if you have a mental connection...and I will add a deep emotional connection too.

 

[ShybutHi]

I think it intensifies the experience, like you said if you have a mental connection...and I will add a deep emotional connection too.

Yes I agree, I am a virgin so in the end it is actually just assumption for me, but I believe that it would be alot more intense and a more enjoyable experience if there is an emotional connection.

 

[IgnoredOne]

The cow says moo?

 

[ShybutHi]

So it got your attention Ignored? lol

 

[Sterling]

You may feel that way about sex, but others do not I suppose.

 

[Barbaloot]

Unfortunately some people have few value attachments towards anything, especially sex. I just try to avoid having any contact with people like you described and leave them to their vices, as well as this:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/4770421.../t/untreatable-gonorrhea-spreading-worldwide/

 

[Callie]

I believe sex should be an act enjoyed by two people who actually have some affection for each other...

Exactly, YOU believe. Not everyone feels the same way about sex. Not everyone feels that it's anything more than just "wham, bam, thank you ma'am." I have quite a few friends that have went out and just screwed to their heart's content. That's their decision, not yours.

The subject matter of this thread is entirely based on opinion, there's nothing saying a person can't go out and have fun. For some people, "fun" is seeing how many times they can get laid.

All that said, I don't have sex just to have sex.

 

[Montreal Skye]

I think it intensifies the experience, like you said if you have a mental connection...and I will add a deep emotional connection too.

Yes I agree, I am a virgin so in the end it is actually just assumption for me, but I believe that it would be alot more intense and a more enjoyable experience if there is an emotional connection.

I think it's great that you know what you want. I don't have all that much experience myself, but I do know now that I want to be with a man who has a deep connection with me. I think when you really get to know a person, you feel more confident all around, and that adds to the experience too.

 

[Stars]

Pretty much everyone is a humping animal...the few good ones...haha, not sure where they are hiding at.

 

[ShybutHi]

Exactly, YOU believe. Not everyone feels the same way about sex. Not everyone feels that it's anything more than just "wham, bam, thank you ma'am." I have quite a few friends that have went out and just screwed to their heart's content. That's their decision, not yours.

The subject matter of this thread is entirely based on opinion, there's nothing saying a person can't go out and have fun. For some people, "fun" is seeing how many times they can get laid.

All that said, I don't have sex just to have sex.

Yep I know exactly what I wrote and I wrote "believe" on purpose because in the end it is opinion. I just think it is rather rediculous to go out having sex with random people just for the hell of it or because basically they can not control themselves, it is my opinion. lol :club:

 

[Callie]

Exactly, YOU believe. Not everyone feels the same way about sex. Not everyone feels that it's anything more than just "wham, bam, thank you ma'am." I have quite a few friends that have went out and just screwed to their heart's content. That's their decision, not yours.

The subject matter of this thread is entirely based on opinion, there's nothing saying a person can't go out and have fun. For some people, "fun" is seeing how many times they can get laid.

All that said, I don't have sex just to have sex.

Yep I know exactly what I wrote and I wrote "believe" on purpose because in the end it is opinion. I just think it is rather rediculous to go out having sex with random people just for the hell of it or because basically they can not control themselves, it is my opinion. lol :club:

I have a friend...about 2 years ago, she broke up with the father of her kids. Well, she decided that she was sick of relationships and only wanted sex. She would...and this is no lie...find a new guy every night to have sex with and would end up leaving right after it was over. There were also quite a few times when she would leave one guy and go to another in the same night.

It's not really about controlling themselves though, they know what they're doing. They want sex, they go find it. Like with my friend I just told you about...she doesn't do that anymore, she realized how stupid that was (what with all the diseases out there) and stopped that.

 

[Limlim]

I totally thought this thread was gonna be about humping an animal

 

[Sarah_Lbnz]

I totally thought this thread was gonna be about humping an animal

Me too. But I'm going to guess the consensus on that would be, "don't. No matter how lonely you get. Just. Don't. Maybe a stuffed one. You know, like 100% cotton or polyester blend." I mean, they can't consent, you know? And you can get diseases, and dude, is that going to be *embarrassing* when you get tested and you have to explain how....

 

[ShybutHi]

Humans are animals and seem to enjoy just "humping" each other for no real reason other than to satisfy their own, in my opinion, selfish animalistic instinct... So I made the subject title as a joke as it could be read as humping an animal or being a humping animal.

 

[Blue_Eyed_Symphony]

Agreed!

 

[Felix]

I'm absolutely disappointed that op is not a zoophiliac.

 

[ShybutHi]

I'm absolutely disappointed that op is not a zoophiliac.

Felix... Isn't Felix a cat? I am sorry to dissapoint you that I am not into beastiality. You will have to find somebody else I'm afraid, maybe someone of your own species.

 

[Gutted]

I don't like meaningless sex. Sex has a high value to me because I don't do it often. Because I don't do it often, I appreciate it more when I do do it and I appreciate the person I do it with for doing it with me. I tell you, I'd be over the moon if I had a Girl who I did it with often lol.

I think that if people are not taught correctly from a young age, they fall into bad habits. Just as you might do with Smoking or Drinking. You have sex and like it. So you do it more and more, without realizing or not caring about the consequences. What happens from my experience is that from doing it, people gain reputation (Especially Teens) That reputation then makes these people more popular and so they have even more access to sex via their new cool friends. The storm brews and the sheets stain lol.

The only way any haters of this can tackle the problem, is by hitting the root cause. Let us unite and go on a rampage against popular people! xD I kid I kid..

Orrrr do I?

 

[Trent]

this thread reminds me of a song

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