I’ve just now joined the forum. Hello.

[user 191131]

I’ve mentioned my situation enough times already.

 

[okidoke]

You can do a search for “marriage” and add my name in the other parameter to see some things I’ve mentioned previously.

 

[user 191131]

I’ve mentioned my situation enough times already.

I may have incorrectly assumed that this forum had its basis in compassion.

 

[okidoke]

I may have incorrectly assumed that this forum had its basis in compassion.

Firstly, you shouldn't assume anything.

Secondly, I am afflicted with mental health issues and have suffered some great injustices in my life (like some others on this forum) so I can sometimes be a little abrupt, indelicate, direct, tactless, inarticulate, just to name a few. I don't mean to be mean.

Thirdly, I can be very compassionate, sensitive, empathetic, stoic, nurturing, helpful, just to name a few, at other times. I try being this way as much as I can.

I just didn't want to see myself writing out the same things I've mentioned before, because it pains me to do so, depresses me, sends me to a place I don't want to be, so it was easier in this instance to direct you to those posts I've already written. Don't take it to mean anything negative towards you.