Syber Tiger
Well-known member
thats the words i want to hear the most
but never will
(cry)
but never will
(cry)
Relentless said:It's never really bothered me, genuinely. I wonder why it bothers you? I don't feel I've missed a thing and I'm being objective there, not defiant. Genes and blood a father does not make, I've had plenty of other male role-models in my life and "known" others in history through writing far superior to anything he could've ever offered me.
Anten said:There is nothing like have a biological father because 99.9% of the time you only have one. Some people grow to despise their father if they were dead beats but some never even had them around to despise them.
Therefore there must also be nothing like having a biological propensity for being male because you only have one defining genital? Well no honeysuckle. Infact, everyone has a singular biological father - the issue was; I belive, living life in the permenant voluntary absence of said biological father. Right?There is nothing like having a biological father because 99.9% of the time you only have one
So what is the point here? Is there something you are trying to articulate? I said that despite growing up without a father, I don't feel I've missed a thing (though you did rather serendipitously omit most of my post explaining that sentiment). Are you saying me not knowing my father, who is arbitrarily a "dead beat" for what he done, has put me on a left foot because I didn't discover it through personally knowing him?Some people grow to despise their father if they were dead beats but some never even had them around to despise them.
Anten said:I was saying you had interactions with your dad that lead you to form an opinion about him. Even thought it was short he basically tried to disown you at a very young age so you in turn disowned him.
You can belittle you biological father with the term sperm donor or what ever but at the end of the day he is still your father. Not saying you can't call someone else your father though or you have to like him but your biological father has a physical connection to you. This is a "no honeysuckle sentence" but it pairs with wanting to form your own opinion about your biologically dad if you never had a chance.
Anten said:I guess i am illiterate because this is what i saw directly after you said that
"He wanted me aborted because he was having an affair with another woman (despite being with my mum for 8+ years). He now has 3 other children with said woman who he has been there for, he was disputing paying my mother child support and put me through a DNA test when I was 7-9 even though he knew my mother had only ever been with him. Obviously It came back he was. "
So my mum tells him shes pregnant and now he wants to kill meHe wanted me aborted because he was having an affair with another woman (despite being with my mum for 8+ years)
Hmmm, this doesn't at all suggest or even strongly imply that he had any time for me after my mother refused to cull the fetus at all, does it?He now has 3 other children with said woman who he has been there for
Seven to nine years later then much?he was disputing paying my mother child support and put me through a DNA test when I was 7-9
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