Jealousy (she's got pictures)

[Badjedidude]

That's why I advised dropping the hubbub and getting over it. Pics of friends in a field? Come on. Sounds like teen drama to me.

----Steve

 

[nerdygirl]

Even if they were already friends, I'd be bugged. Especially since it was expressed as, "That's what WE do." Like it's something special. Why not go hang out some other place?

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That doesn't mean get all nuts about it, though! If you're bothered, you talk. If you're bothered and you don't talk, it's going to come out at some really lame time. Five years later, mid-argument, you'll be all, "Well... YOU shouldn't go laiding in fields with people!"

 

[Bereaved]

I'll post the pics in a while. I wanna edit out their faces first.

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Here's one of the pics :/

 

[VanillaCreme]

Uhh... That's... odd. She's in his lap? Why is she in his lap like that? Unless they're really close friends, I don't think that should happen. I'd ask her about it.

 

[cheaptrickfan]

Ok, if that were my boyfriend with another girl in what can only be described as an intimate pose, I'd be, um what's the word? Oh yeah... livid.

I would definitely talk to her about it, but again, remember to keep it calm and not go all crazy on her, because then she's put on the defensive and in my experience, that can drag things out.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

what i wanna know is....how in the fresia can anyone get laid with that freaken hair?
Yeah man...Ask her about the dude's hair? What's up with the hair?

 

[PoWer2tHePeOpLE]

that doesn't look like 'just friends' to me..

in my world the honeysuckle would be hitting the fan..

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Yeah man...Ask her about the dude's hair? What's up with the hair?

lol

 

[Bereaved]

We have plans tomorrow and she wants to squeeze him in. I'm starting to feel dejected. :/ Ofcourse I said no. She took it well enough. *sigh*

 

[Steel]

I would call that an intimate pose.

However, before you go and get all angry, it would be worth talking to them both about it - it's possible that there is an innocent explanation - especially if they are also friends.

 

[Just_Some_Dude]

dude, does she have a sister? if so, bang her, and post snuggling pics afterward. your girlfriend intends to, or is already, ******* around on you. sorry to break the news. that pose couldn't be much more intimate if they tried. cut your losses, don't talk, don't ask, dude, she has already spelled it out for you! look at the ******* picture. bang her sister and get back to me, you will feel better! stat

 

[PoWer2tHePeOpLE]

she wanted to invite him along? more stinky smeared on my cooling apparatus..

but,

my 'other' had a similar 'invite others when possible' nature and i know there was nothing insidious about it at all. i knew her very well though.. it didn't mean that i didn't experience jealousy, i just knew that it wasn't her way.

remember that your girlfriend CANNOT do 'better' than YOU

 

[shells]

You need to confront her about it and let her know how you feel.

Even better, ask how she would feel if you had pictures like that plastered on your site with a different girl?

 

[Just_Some_Dude]

You need to confront her about it and let her know how you feel.

Even better, ask how she would feel if you had pictures like that plastered on your site with a different girl?

nah, go for the win...

bang her sister, trust me,

dude, she is looking gazingly into his eyes with her head resting on his package.

 

[nerdygirl]

I would be furious. I'd have to get a little tipsy or something before talking about this, because I'd be too mad, otherwise. That is not a friend pose. I kept imagining them both lying around with their heads resting near each other, on the ground... which would bother me, but could be innocent. Her head is in his lap and she's gazing up at him and no freaking way. Wait, isn't he your best friend? What the hell is your best friend doing with your girlfriend's head in his lap? Forget the broad, go talk to your "friend"!

 

[VanillaCreme]

Nerdy, I thought the same pose. Not her in his lap like that. Not only would I be mad if it happened to me, no doubt I'd expect some honeysuckle if I did that to my boyfriend. I'd expect to be bitched at for it. Talking to the friend would help too... Unless he just doesn't care about the friendship.

And JSD, your advice is not one should really follow. Sleeping with a family member to "get back" at her is not the best of things to do. That would probably only drive a wedge between the two, more so than the " best friend" already seems to be.

 

[Just_Some_Dude]

Nerdy, I thought the same pose. Not her in his lap like that. Not only would I be mad if it happened to me, no doubt I'd expect some honeysuckle if I did that to my boyfriend. I'd expect to be bitched at for it. Talking to the friend would help too... Unless he just doesn't care about the friendship.

And JSD, your advice is not one should really follow. Sleeping with a family member to "get back" at her is not the best of things to do. That would probably only drive a wedge between the two, more so than the " best friend" already seems to be.

there's already a wedge between his girlfriend and his bestfriend, called a wanker!

i say wedge away! the time for talking is done. he will only feel stupid later. she has already let it be known by doing that to this poor guy that she doesn't care. there is nothing to talk about, other than how fast he dumps her ass and how nasty he gets in return. imho

 

[cheaptrickfan]

bang her sister and get back to me, you will feel better! stat

Oh FFS, JSD. Sex as revenge only feels good in the short term. Eventually anyone with a conscience comes to regret it.

 

[VanillaCreme]

bang her sister and get back to me, you will feel better! stat

Oh FFS, JSD. Sex as revenge only feels good in the short term. Eventually anyone with a conscience comes to regret it.

I agree wholeheartedly. Not exactly the best idea, especially since he seems to still care about her and the relationship enough. You don't get upset and you don't worry over a picture like that because you don't care.

 

[Steel]

Also, it wouldn't actually be treating her sister very well, now would it?

 

[EveWasFramed]

nah, go for the win...

bang her sister, trust me,

Well....that was certainly disappointing.