You're very flattering John, but greatly mistaken, as many are, that if you're "good-looking" you're not lonely. I went the circuit in college, was a cheerleader, attended the parties, dated all the "right" guys, but it was so fake. I felt so detached from the crowd even while standing in the middle of them. I played the part, but couldn't connect with them. I didn't feel I was better than, just knew I wasn't like them. (Maybe others felt the same as I did and we were all fake, who knows.) I found more and more that gave me reason to pull away, I didn't drink (can you imagine what the frat parties were like when I always jumped to be the DD so it wasn't so obvious that I didn't drink), didn't sleep around (became considered a real prude by some), etc. I never really found a real way to socialize, but I never really felt I wanted to honestly be in their company to start with. Wow, I've rambled. Sorry!