Married and Lonely seeking friends

[Techno]

The worst thing in life isn't to end up all alone. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone. You shouldn't have to beg for things that should be freely given to you like love and affection. Resentment develops when you repeatedly feel unheard, dismissed or feel that your spouse puts other interests ahead of you and the marriage.

Research suggests 60% of people that suffer from loneliness are actually living with their spouse. It might hurt to walk away but that will never compare to the pain of staying. Don't let the fear of being alone keep you in a relationship where you are alone.

You need to decide. Is this the life you want to live?. Is this the person you want to love?. Is this the best you can be?. Can you be stronger? kinder? more compassionate?. Decide, breathe in, breathe out and decide.

Thank you!

 

[TheRealCallie]

Thank you! I would never cheat on my wife. I love her and we have a good life except for the conversation. I usually go for walks or coffee with friends, but her silence when I tried to talk to her about my family sent me into a Deep depression. We went to a birthday party yesterday, and many friends I had not seen since pre covid were warm, friendly and interested in talking to me so I am feeling better. I usually do the things you suggested I do. Thanks again.

Glad you're feeling better.
How do you feel about therapy? Would she be open to going as a couple? If not, even going alone could be helpful.

 

[Techno]

Glad you're feeling better.
How do you feel about therapy? Would she be open to going as a couple? If not, even going alone could be helpful.

I am in favor of therapy. I have been in therapy a few times.

 

[Raa]

Hi All,
I am a 35 yr old female and I am married. I am very lonely and depress. I know some of you would say...if you are married then why are you lonely...it's because my husband is not married to me but he is married to his JOB! He spends more time there than with me. When he is home he does not talk to me, but he is on the computer trying to find ways to make more money. I am a house wife, I married a rich man, but I am very unhappy. He is a great provider but not a husband. We do not have a relationship....I have a void in my life that I need filled..I need social interaction....I love to have great conversation. I am open minded. I am here seeking friends male or female. If you can relate to me write back. thanks

Hi tangy002, my name is Rainey and it’s a pleasure to meet you. I’m saddened to read your story, I can hear your heat breaking still. I’m soon to be separated although no longer engaged, I understand how you feel about being lonely.
I’d like to be your penpal as it were if you’re interested.