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I come to this site to help alleviate anxiety. Hopefully not worse.
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I remember growing up, and having heard stories from others, that, there is a certain stigma associated with masturbation.  In case nobody in here remembers.  Most men have an important entire LANK of skin cut off from them when they are babies.  This is trauma.  It's hard enough to come out of a nice comfy womb, then to have the most sensitive part of your sensitive baby body be met with a razor.

The reason the foreskin is removed, if I am not mistaken (and I may be, but I doubt it heavily), is basically because some religion somewhere decided it would be a good way to prevent young men from masturbating.  

Now that I have digressed a bit from my main point.  I am reinforcing the idea that there is 'stigma' associated with masturbation at a very archaic level, especially in jewish/christian circles.  Now I remember growing up hearing my other peers and others peers talk about how they don't **********, they find some one to, 'get with', basically (at a YOUNG age I was hearing this from my male AND female peers).  This is another prod at masturbation.  We grow up with the idea that *** is bad (mainly because *** before marriage could spoil heirs or dowry's and or just **** up 'plans'), on top of this, we grow up with the idea masturbation is bad.

So I do believe the 'no-***' challenge is just a sort of neo-stigmatization of masturbation in general.  It's hard enough being single, now you need to feel bad for being single and having a labido.

I personally do believe A LOT of **** out there is ****** up.  REALLY ****** up.  So are a lot of sexual encounters.  So is *** in general even in these modern times.  I am of the opinion VERY few people make it into adult hood with out having received some sort of sexual trauma/shock/embarrassment to some degree, either it be massive embarrassment, all the way to the stuff I as man, personally can't even imagine.

Suffice to say, I think the no-*** challenge stuff is just as much of a croc as all this 'cleansing' stuff and all the other crazy things people do to themselves.

By all means if you find yourself in a bunker filling gallon jars of spooge by the week and growing hair on your palms (joking), lol, then sure maybe take a break and get out there a little, nothing wrong with with that.  However, plain and simple...  There are only so many times in a day you can honestly milk the damn thing, and I doubt it would take much more than an hour (collectively) to reach the daily max.

That's my take.  I'm not going to do the whole male vs. female masturbation thing.  There may be some points to be made there as well; but, on both sides.  I say ********** while you still can.  One day you will be old, and the damn thing won't work anymore.  Use that as your motivation to get your life out of whatever rut you feel your in.

I say what's healthier is if you are a righty become a lefty and vice versa.  That's interesting.  And you can give up masturbating entirely if you want to, but you are still going to have wet dreams, cause that old spunk needs to get refreshed, if you don't do it yourself, your body will, and your body is a part of you, so you will no matter what anyway.
 
TropicalStarfish said:
I remember growing up, and having heard stories from others, that, there is a certain stigma associated with masturbation.  In case nobody in here remembers.  Most men have an important entire LANK of skin cut off from them when they are babies.  This is trauma.  It's hard enough to come out of a nice comfy womb, then to have the most sensitive part of your sensitive baby body be met with a razor.

The reason the foreskin is removed, if I am not mistaken (and I may be, but I doubt it heavily), is basically because some religion somewhere decided it would be a good way to prevent young men from masturbating.  

Now that I have digressed a bit from my main point.  I am reinforcing the idea that there is 'stigma' associated with masturbation at a very archaic level, especially in jewish/christian circles.  Now I remember growing up hearing my other peers and others peers talk about how they don't **********, they find some one to, 'get with', basically (at a YOUNG age I was hearing this from my male AND female peers).  This is another prod at masturbation.  We grow up with the idea that *** is bad (mainly because *** before marriage could spoil heirs or dowry's and or just **** up 'plans'), on top of this, we grow up with the idea masturbation is bad.

So I do believe the 'no-***' challenge is just a sort of neo-stigmatization of masturbation in general.  It's hard enough being single, now you need to feel bad for being single and having a labido.

I personally do believe A LOT of **** out there is ****** up.  REALLY ****** up.  So are a lot of sexual encounters.  So is *** in general even in these modern times.  I am of the opinion VERY few people make it into adult hood with out having received some sort of sexual trauma/shock/embarrassment to some degree, either it be massive embarrassment, all the way to the stuff I as man, personally can't even imagine.

Suffice to say, I think the no-*** challenge stuff is just as much of a croc as all this 'cleansing' stuff and all the other crazy things people do to themselves.

By all means if you find yourself in a bunker filling gallon jars of spooge by the week and growing hair on your palms (joking), lol, then sure maybe take a break and get out there a little, nothing wrong with with that.  However, plain and simple...  There are only so many times in a day you can honestly milk the damn thing, and I doubt it would take much more than an hour (collectively) to reach the daily max.

That's my take.  I'm not going to do the whole male vs. female masturbation thing.  There may be some points to be made there as well; but, on both sides.  I say ********** while you still can.  One day you will be old, and the damn thing won't work anymore.  Use that as your motivation to get your life out of whatever rut you feel your in.

I say what's healthier is if you are a righty become a lefty and vice versa.  That's interesting.  And you can give up masturbating entirely if you want to, but you are still going to have wet dreams, cause that old spunk needs to get refreshed, if you don't do it yourself, your body will, and your body is a part of you, so you will no matter what anyway.
Interesting take. I agree the whole no *** challenge is just that. A challenge in self- control. Which is great. Important.
I have not reaped any of so-called benefits that come with cutting it out


So I just cut it down for just that. Self control.
Not to rely on **** for a relief. Break a bad habit.
I didn't feel anymore focused. Anymore confident. Anymore anything but frustrated agitated. And to be honest, you can feel the exact same way an hour after masterbating. But then on no *** they will say it's because you didn't go 90 days? Really 90s days vs 30? Don't buy it. Do you?
 
Restless soul said:
Sci-Fi said:
What are you trying to say, that everyone here are experts on masturbation?  That all we do is play with ourselves on a regular basis?  We only find pleasure with our own hands, toys, or other ways if you can bend that far?  That we have nothing else better to do with our time than to beat the meat, polish our rods, spank the monkey, choke the chicken, stretch the yard, work the wood, etc.  Ladies might have to help me out with euphemisms for fingering.  

I'm joking btw :p

You do what's good for you and don't worry about what anyone else thinks.  It's ones own personal preference and no one should shame anyone else for how often or how little they pleasure themselves or how long they can go without it.  Studies have shown there are benefits to masturbation, even for married people in committed relationships with a healthy *** life.  As for your own sexual urges and needs, if all you want is *** maybe all you need is a "**** buddy" or professional who can service that need for you.
Hmmm🤔..but its cool for you to joke?
Oh" **** buddy" wow! Noo that's not objectifying anybody

Gimme a break

Watch it, don't get snippy and ignorant with me.  YOU were being objectifying, I was not.  Don't go accusing me of things I didn't do.  When a moderator warns you of something it's best to heed that warning and not be a jerk about it.  You won't get a warning next time if that's the way you want to be.
 
Sci-Fi said:
Restless soul said:
Sci-Fi said:
What are you trying to say, that everyone here are experts on masturbation?  That all we do is play with ourselves on a regular basis?  We only find pleasure with our own hands, toys, or other ways if you can bend that far?  That we have nothing else better to do with our time than to beat the meat, polish our rods, spank the monkey, choke the chicken, stretch the yard, work the wood, etc.  Ladies might have to help me out with euphemisms for fingering.  

I'm joking btw :p

You do what's good for you and don't worry about what anyone else thinks.  It's ones own personal preference and no one should shame anyone else for how often or how little they pleasure themselves or how long they can go without it.  Studies have shown there are benefits to masturbation, even for married people in committed relationships with a healthy *** life.  As for your own sexual urges and needs, if all you want is *** maybe all you need is a "**** buddy" or professional who can service that need for you.
Hmmm🤔..but its cool for you to joke?
Oh" **** buddy" wow! Noo that's not objectifying anybody

Gimme a break

Watch it, don't get snippy and ignorant with me.  YOU were being objectifying, I was not.  Don't go accusing me of things I didn't do.  When a moderator warns you of something it's best to heed that warning and not be a jerk about it.  You won't get a warning next time if that's the way you want to be.

Now you Listen. Get Snippy? What are you affraid of?
First of all little man. You are a man, right? Not even sure at this point. But don't for a second ever. When you wake up and until the day you die think you are  morally superior to any man you see waking the streets posting on this forum. Don't for one second think you are cleaner. Purer or some kind of angel. Because my friend you are not. You are just a moderator on a forum. A smug. Judgmental. No sense of humor mod. Really hope you are not this way in person. That would make you an even more miserable person than me.
But go ahead ban me if you must that's what men like you do.
( if you are a man, have my doubts ) if that's what will give you your jollies. Get your rocks so be it. Censor away.


Oh. Pardon the spelling on bad smartphone screen..


I bet you hate trump too
 
Restless soul said:
Now you Listen. Get Snippy? What are you affraid of?
First of all little man. You are a man, right? Not even sure at this point. But don't for a second ever. When you wake up and until the day you die think you are  morally superior to any man you see waking the streets posting on this forum. Don't for one second think you are cleaner. Purer or some kind of angel. Because my friend you are not. You are just a moderator on a forum. A smug. Judgmental. No sense of humor mod. Really hope you are not this way in person. That would make you an even more miserable person than me.
But go ahead ban me if you must that's what men like you do.
( if you are a man, have my doubts ) if that's what will give you your jollies. Get your rocks so be it. Censor away.


Oh. Pardon the spelling on bad smartphone screen..


I bet you hate trump too





Let me tell you something. What I have learned from this guy is that he does not mess around. If he asks you to do something then just do it. But you had to start off by insulting him by calling him a little man and after that it just went downhill. What do you expect him to do, thank you for what you said? What's the matter with you besides the obvious?

And do you know what the worst thing was? You had to bring politics into this. What the *&^% does Trump have to do with this and why should that make you feel more superior over him?
 
BeyondShy said:
Restless soul said:
Now you Listen. Get Snippy? What are you affraid of?
First of all little man. You are a man, right? Not even sure at this point. But don't for a second ever. When you wake up and until the day you die think you are  morally superior to any man you see waking the streets posting on this forum. Don't for one second think you are cleaner. Purer or some kind of angel. Because my friend you are not. You are just a moderator on a forum. A smug. Judgmental. No sense of humor mod. Really hope you are not this way in person. That would make you an even more miserable person than me.
But go ahead ban me if you must that's what men like you do.
( if you are a man, have my doubts ) if that's what will give you your jollies. Get your rocks so be it. Censor away.


Oh. Pardon the spelling on bad smartphone screen..


I bet you hate trump too





Let me tell you something. What I have learned from this guy is that he does not mess around. If he asks you to do something then just do it. But you had to start off by insulting him by calling him a little man and after that it just went downhill. What do you expect him to do, thank you for what you said? What's the matter with you besides the obvious?

And do you know what the worst thing was? You had to bring politics into this. What the *&^% does Trump have to do with this and why should that make you feel more superior over him?




He will do what he must. Ok? That's fine.


He wants to be the moral and ethics police.
 
BeyondShy said:
Restless soul said:
Now you Listen. Get Snippy? What are you affraid of?
First of all little man. You are a man, right? Not even sure at this point. But don't for a second ever. When you wake up and until the day you die think you are  morally superior to any man you see waking the streets posting on this forum. Don't for one second think you are cleaner. Purer or some kind of angel. Because my friend you are not. You are just a moderator on a forum. A smug. Judgmental. No sense of humor mod. Really hope you are not this way in person. That would make you an even more miserable person than me.
But go ahead ban me if you must that's what men like you do.
( if you are a man, have my doubts ) if that's what will give you your jollies. Get your rocks so be it. Censor away.


Oh. Pardon the spelling on bad smartphone screen..


I bet you hate trump too





Let me tell you something. What I have learned from this guy is that he does not mess around. If he asks you to do something then just do it. But you had to start off by insulting him by calling him a little man and after that it just went downhill. What do you expect him to do, thank you for what you said? What's the matter with you besides the obvious?

And do you know what the worst thing was? You had to bring politics into this. What the *&^% does Trump have to do with this and why should that make you feel more superior over him?




Because Russia!
 
BeyondShy said:
Restless soul said:
Now you Listen. Get Snippy? What are you affraid of?
First of all little man. You are a man, right? Not even sure at this point. But don't for a second ever. When you wake up and until the day you die think you are  morally superior to any man you see waking the streets posting on this forum. Don't for one second think you are cleaner. Purer or some kind of angel. Because my friend you are not. You are just a moderator on a forum. A smug. Judgmental. No sense of humor mod. Really hope you are not this way in person. That would make you an even more miserable person than me.
But go ahead ban me if you must that's what men like you do.
( if you are a man, have my doubts ) if that's what will give you your jollies. Get your rocks so be it. Censor away.


Oh. Pardon the spelling on bad smartphone screen..


I bet you hate trump too





Let me tell you something. What I have learned from this guy is that he does not mess around. If he asks you to do something then just do it. But you had to start off by insulting him by calling him a little man and after that it just went downhill. What do you expect him to do, thank you for what you said? What's the matter with you besides the obvious?

And do you know what the worst thing was? You had to bring politics into this. What the *&^% does Trump have to do with this and why should that make you feel more superior over him?




What exactly is the "obvious"?  You are aware that two wrongs don't make a right, aren't you?
 
This is all started when he said I was objectifying women. That is a great topic. You can start. I won't seeing as I will be banned.
 
TheRealCallie said:
You were....

For telling a woman she has nice legs? Or talking about what type of body type I like in a woman. All things men do. And talk about offline between friends. You can demonize them if you want.


Callie will you miss me when I am gone?


Thats all I want to know
 

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