Micro-Penis

[Alianz]

We are all adults here.And, this is the place where we can discuss about our problems, from drug dependency, deformation, depression,benefactors. Therefore, I was born with a micro penis. This has been the primary problem of my life. It measures exactly 1 inch erect. As you can see it's really small. I went to doctor to doctor trying to find a solution, but unfortunately all i get is "this is a permanent problem" and "try to live life to the fullest"
I think this has affected me in dating too, one time i was with this girl it all went all cool, until we got naked and she literally said" wow that looks like a vagina" I wasn't the same from that day on.
In another case I thought i met my "soul mate" she told that looks, and the physical are only the secondary to most women, including her.So when we got naked, she saw my cock and started laughing hysterically.

So here I am in this forum openly discussing 1 of my torturous secret ever.
I am not sure what to do anymore. I know women ask for love aka sex and money, but money i got. but i cant give them sex. I am sure that they will just cheat on me with some guy with a bigger penis. I don't want to die i like living, but at the same time what good is my penis if i can't even have an orgasm.
Any thoughts?or ideas. thanks.

 

[Ak5]

It's not your fault. I think you're doctors are right, you have got to live life to the fullest. I am not saying it's going to be easy, cause I'm sure you know it's not; but to be honest, the only solution is finding a woman who truly doesn't care.

Also, just cause of this, doesn't mean you can't pleasure a female.

Good luck.

 

[Chasm]

We are all adults here.And, this is the place where we can discuss about our problems, from drug dependency, deformation, depression,benefactors. Therefore, I was born with a micro penis. This has been the primary problem of my life. It measures exactly 1 inch erect. As you can see it's really small. I went to doctor to doctor trying to find a solution, but unfortunately all i get is "this is a permanent problem" and "try to live life to the fullest"
I think this has affected me in dating too, one time i was with this girl it all went all cool, until we got naked and she literally said" wow that looks like a vagina" I wasn't the same from that day on.
In another case I thought i met my "soul mate" she told that looks, and the physical are only the secondary to most women, including her.So when we got naked, she saw my cock and started laughing hysterically.

So here I am in this forum openly discussing 1 of my torturous secret ever.
I am not sure what to do anymore. I know women ask for love aka sex and money, but money i got. but i cant give them sex. I am sure that they will just cheat on me with some guy with a bigger penis. I don't want to die i like living, but at the same time what good is my penis if i can't even have an orgasm.
Any thoughts?or ideas. thanks.

the reason u keep getng hurt like this is ur just not being open with these women
this is sumthing that has 2b talkd about 1st b4 u get in2 the act
its better 2 if u can xpose this b4 u get attached
not like "hi can i buy u a drink btw ive a really small dick" type of xpose
but get 2 know them a little
n then drop it on them a while b4 the act
most women whove grown 2 care about u will b OK with this
its all in how u deliver it ok?
u dont need a penis 2 give a woman sex
in fact most of the time a penis is pretty ineffective @ that LoL
just b sure ur other "skills" r polished
i would worry more about u if u really cant orgasm
im not 2sure wut 2 say about that since i dunno ur issue there really

 

[kamya]

People can be cruel dood. Physically, if you want to stay a man, this problem isn't fixable. I've heard people getting sex change ops as a potential cure. Other than that, you could invest in some kind of strap-on maybe? I dunno how that would work with your penis in the way though. Get good at oral sex. Try to let your partners know beforehand about your problem but don't be ashamed about it when you mention it. Don't get embarrassed when someone laughs at it, get angry. Next time some girl laughs about it make sure you make them feel guilty for being such as insensitive ****.

 

[Alianz]

thanks guys this was a sensitive issue for me, I just thought that some of you guys had micro-penises yourself maybe asian, buddies with the same problem.
I appreciate all the answers.If more that's cool too

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

Wow, that sounds like a horrible problem. I'm sorry those people laughed, that's awful

I'd agree with what Chasm said, focus on all the other ways you can make a woman feel good and try not to let it bother you.

If people are so shallow that something like this makes them feel like you're not good enough for them, that's their loss, not yours.

I think this is another absolutely ******** pop. culture thing too, in that nearly every facet of the media acts like a bigger penis = more of a man.

It's total crap, but it's sad how much it's encouraged. Imagine what an uproar there would be if men started being fed stuff all the time saying that larger natural ****s were always preferable to smaller ones... >_>

Also, what Kamya said. If someone makes you feel bad because of this, you make it known to them that they're laughing at someone's disability, see how they feel after that.

I'd keep up seeing doctors too, they should at least be able to link you to some sort of discussion group about this sort of thing if it's bothering you as it sounds to be.

Good luck

 

[Zasha]

Hi Everyone.

I just need some help, I'm a mother of 2 healthy fabulous boys of 2 years old and 3- month old. Since birth we have been waiting for an appointment to see a specialist for my 3 month old son and it HAPPENED today! He was diagnosed with micropenis/ slightly buried penis, as a mother I am terrified for him and the cruel world that lays ahead.

He is my son and only 3 month old and I love him with my life so to me he is perfect and I will not hear any different, however I am also not oblivious to the world and I understand he will grow up one day and I will not be there to protect him.
I am writing this for some advice on how to help him when he becomes aware of it, and is at an age he wants a girlfriend etc into manhood, what would you say the best advise or help you ever got and is it best to be discussed with him early on in life, I don't want to make it a big secret or let him feel isolated or ashamed nor to I want to make it a massive deal.

Thanks you

 

[Unsigned]

Hi Everyone.

I just need some help, I'm a mother of 2 healthy fabulous boys of 2 years old and 3- month old. Since birth we have been waiting for an appointment to see a specialist for my 3 month old son and it HAPPENED today! He was diagnosed with micropenis/ slightly buried penis, as a mother I am terrified for him and the cruel world that lays ahead.

He is my son and only 3 month old and I love him with my life so to me he is perfect and I will not hear any different, however I am also not oblivious to the world and I understand he will grow up one day and I will not be there to protect him.
I am writing this for some advice on how to help him when he becomes aware of it, and is at an age he wants a girlfriend etc into manhood, what would you say the best advise or help you ever got and is it best to be discussed with him early on in life, I don't want to make it a big secret or let him feel isolated or ashamed nor to I want to make it a massive deal.

Thanks you

I think there is testosterone therapy and many other options with modern medicine.
Please do not let very sick and unscrupulous people talk you into some type of "transitioning" like they did in the 70s and 80s.
That, IMO, is evil.
I think he will have decent options with current medical technology.
Good luck and God bless.

 

[Cherubino]

this is a really complex issue that needs to be addressed by professional therapists ... I just want to share I know of a case from decades ago when some incompetent doctors decided to perform gender changing surgery on a baby boy born with this issue followed by hormonal treatment and a girlish upbringing while hiding from him the fact he was once a boy ... I was struck by the fact that his brain always retained an innate, wired awareness of his male gender and he always felt he was boy therefore after he found out the truth he asked at mature age to change his gender back to male ... even more striking was the fact that he afterwards had a partner (girlfriend) who loved him in spite of his previous "done-undone" surgeries ... also you can think there are women who marry men paralyzed from waist down with 100 percent severity erectile dysfunction and this could be seen like a similar circumstance ... love and knowledge are everything

 

[insecure]

So here I am in this forum openly discussing 1 of my torturous secret ever.
I am not sure what to do anymore. I know women ask for love aka sex and money, but money i got. but i cant give them sex. I am sure that they will just cheat on me with some guy with a bigger penis. I don't want to die i like living, but at the same time what good is my penis if i can't even have an orgasm.
Any thoughts?or ideas. thanks.

I'm surprised. I heard the term micropenis a couple of times, so I knew it existed, but fortunately I don't suffer this problem.
What I don't get is that you say you can't even get an orgasm.
Even at 1 inch your penis is much bigger than most clitorises (the exposed part, that is), and women are able to get an orgasm, if not when having sex with a partner, at least when masturbating.
I also saw some porn videos about some lesbian women with large clits who are able to penetrate another woman's vagina (tribbing).
I don't know what the size of those clits is, but I would think if they can do it why would it be impossible for you?
So I wonder if it is really physically impossible for you to reach an orgasm or if you are just being offended by these women, so that you don't dare to try it.
First think I would try if I were you, would be to reach an orgasm through masturbation.
If that works, you can try to reach it through intercourse with a woman who does not make fun of your issue.

Just reasoning as a layman, maybe there is medical stuff I don't know about that prevents you from reaching an orgasm.

 

[Cherubino]

actually I think this thread is trollish but still the opinions are valuable

 

[user 139760]

My ex used to tell me about her previous bf before me. The one responsible for the abortion that really traumatized her and that, once he dumped her, she spent the better part of a year winning him back to no avail. Goes to show you it matters not to sone people.
Most guys feel insecure about size, I'm no exception, even though I'm well in the average. But a micro penis is, to me, to be considered a health problem if it interferes with normal sexual intercourse. Sadly, it's still somewhat of a taboo subject and something of rodicule, which is just sad. I've seen several dating profiles on tinder before stating "no micros", which shows you how moronic and insensitive some ppl can be.

All I can offer is to speak to your doctor m the extreme solution would be a transplant, but I've no idea how it works, only that it's possible. If not, there are other ways to sexual satisfaction, as long as you have a caring and understanding partner.

 

[insecure]

Yes, the last girl I was with used to make jokes about a previous guy she was with who had a tiny one, she used to say it was because he was fat.

 

[user 139760]

Yes, the last girl I was with used to make jokes about a previous guy she was with who had a tiny one, she used to say it was because he was fat.

That's just lacking in knowledge or logic. Average is around 5 in and a half erect. Weight doesn't make a difference except making it maybe LOOK smaller, but it isn't.

Also, I read that average vaginal canal is about 4 to 4.5 inches on average. While some girls do enjoy bruised cervixes, I've spoken to many who find it painful during sex when lenght is too imposing. A friend of mine dated someone who had about 7 inches, love kept them together, but she found sex uncomfortable and painful every time. It's a part of our modern culture that bases the worth of a man based on penis size and it's totally poppycock. In some other cultures, it's even completely the other way around. Ancient Greeks viewed imposing male organs as a sign of promiscuity and debauchery, hence why all their heroic statues had more diminutive sexual organs.

 

[sub5male]

Penis size is one of the 4 parts of the minimum requirements that women have for men-i.e. 6+ foot tall, 6+ figure income, 6+ inch penis and 6 pack abs. Of course, if a man is not tall and good looking enough, the size of his penis is never going to be an issue anyway.

 

[user 139760]

Penis size is one of the 4 parts of the minimum requirements that women have for men-i.e. 6+ foot tall, 6+ figure income, 6+ inch penis and 6 pack abs. Of course, if a man is not tall and good looking enough, the size of his penis is never going to be an issue anyway.

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I wouldn't go there.

 

[insecure]

I think length of a penis is overrated, the width of the gland is underestimated.
After all, what difference does it make if you get 2 inches deeper than the average?

 

[sub5male]

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6666.
I wouldn't go there.

I think length of a penis is overrated, the width of the gland is underestimated.
After all, what difference does it make if you get 2 inches deeper than the average?

It does seem to matter quite a bit to most women though & just like baseball, many things in life come down to a game of inches as far as success or failure. A few inches in length & width, a few inches of height, a few millimeters of bone in regards to facial structure-they can make all the difference in the world between being an attractive man and an unattractive man.

 

[Cherubino]

indeed it's more about the visual impact on the brain rather than the function .... there is such a great diversity in tastes among women as well as men ... like I was never interested in the quite popular breast size or shape but instead the length of the legs and shape of the butt are fundamental to my brain's esthetics configuration

 

[Zasha]

I think there is testosterone therapy and many other options with modern medicine.
Please do not let very sick and unscrupulous people talk you into some type of "transitioning" like they did in the 70s and 80s.
That, IMO, is evil.
I think he will have decent options with current medical technology.
Good luck and God bless.

Thank you very much for this post, I am looking into everything I can and we are going to approach many medical professionals and try get some help, we can only do our best.
I am hoping that science will of produced more meds etc to help when he is of need, I did discuss the testosterone injections when I had a meeting as I spend every day reaching before I went, fingers crossed we can help my beautiful baby .

Thanks again

Thanks again