spectacles said:
Socrates,
Im really sorry girls have hurt u, u sound really resentful to the opposite *** (I read many of ur posts). I agree with u that looks play an important part, but that doesnt mean u have to overgeneralize all the time. I dont see ur point, guys also do the same,we are all the same. Hope u find ur exception girl. After all thats what we all look for, the exception person.
I'm more or less fine now, I take control of my own life. I have no resentment of women any more than I have of men. It is just neccessary to point out how the dating game works. I am only posting here to help out the more fragile members who are going through the same stuff I went through. But they will never be cured if they are told to wait for a needle in the haystack to come to them. I made this post as a favor to the other dudes on this forum, not because I'm "angry" at my chick friend (I'm not).
I don't want an "exception" girl. It is stastically improbable. I worked at making my looks up to par, and learned how to take an aggressive, assertive stand in life, and now I can generate female interest on a regular basis from a certain type of females.
My problem now is acting on that interest and seducing them, which is very hard for me alot of the time due to past experiences.
I've never seen your posts before, Spectacles.