kamya said:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio
It's pretty much 1:1
It's not that rejection is the issue. It's the amount of it that the average guy has to go through to get anything, IF they are lucky enough to get anything at all. While women can put in minimal effort and still have men come to them for her pick whichever one interests them.
The original comment I made was basically about having the option of being friends first and then having it develop into something more. This is a strategy that very rarely works for the vast majority of men out there. Which sucks because IMO I prefer getting closer through friendship first.
And then in a post afterwards I only stated that its easier for women to have their pick. I wasn't trying to argue that women have easy lives or have no problems at all in the dating world. Again, you bring unrelated crap into what I'm claiming to try to discredit it instead of arguing against anything I'm ACTUALLY saying. Instead we just like to ignore the points and make vaguely related tangents and argue those points and pretend as if they were the original issue.
LOL
I wasn't picking on you. That just hasn't been my experience. And I stand corrected, thank you, haven't really brushed up on this info since I was a babe in high school. (Damn shame though, there go my plans for having a harem when I'm 90)
I used to be, though. When I was younger, used to be the "nice-guy" trope. Had much the same opinions as you do. Probably still do to an extent, sometimes, I don't think it's all that unreasonable in some cases.
However, I made a choice, long time ago.
I chose never to blame a group, or an ensemble, or a race or a ***, for the actions of a few against me.
In the end, made myself view things differently. Got plenty of anger toward girlfolk sometimes. But I still love my mother. My sister. My daughters. And they don't fit in any of those statistics (as my sister's 300 some-odd pound boyfriend might attest).
I think the dating world is more of a viewpoint problem than a *** (male-female)problem. But hey, that's my point of view ;-)
For example, I was on POF (Plenty of Fish) for about 2 years. Met a couple people, but not lots. And what I met was...rather scary. Spent most of the time on the forums because I figured most single people were idiots on dating websites. Now that I've been off for several years, well...I think it's truer than before lol.
Anyways, I won't beat this dead horse, think I've made my opinions known enough on other threads, I'm just here to jerk of...um, jerk around with Callie
Oh and it may be more of a hassle to men, but...I'm worth it. Whatever the outcome, that's something I know that someone who doesn't want to return the effort doesn't know, and who never will. That's another choice.