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Living alone for so long sucks. I'd love to live with someone. Watch tv and eat together simple thins make me happy, but living alone for so long is a bad drag. I'm pretty sure it's bad for my health and makes me less able to socialise. So for all the people at there who live with someone be grateful for it (even when it's messy). And for others like me I hear you.

But what is the best thing about living alone? Anyone
 
You're all alone
Surrounded by friends
But none of them know
The real you within
You want to cry out
There's pain dwelling inside
To let them find out
Just how much you've cried

But no, they don't see you
Nor the pain in your heart
They want to believe you
That your smile means a lot.



I've always been a loner. Even when I had friends, I was always alone. I always feel misunderstood.
It is not a self-esteem issue.
Nor is it a trust issue.
I don't even understand myself, can anyone relate???
 
My first time here since September. I left because a situation was making me feel even worse.

I'm so lonely and have nobody. Finding a local friend is impossible and finding anyone as more than a friend is even more than impossible. Nobody likes men who look like me. :(

Thanks for listening.
 
I'm wondering why I feel annoyed that my sister is visiting today. I think I'm starting to like my loneliness...
 
wolfshadow said:
I'm in danger of turning this thread into my own personal angst diary and must curtail the rot, right here and right now.

To that end, I am going to pose a light hearted question to noone in particular. When I was a small child and oblivious to many of the basic truths of the world and it's workings, I remember trying to teach my dog a few basic words of English. Has anyone else here ever attempted such a preposterous undertaking, or did I raise the bar a notch too high?

not too high a notch,
there are some dogs that look you in the eye and try to respond,
And some words do form.
like a whine or disgruntled sound.
 
bjarne said:
This is the open "rant" forum, where you can, anonoymously, express how you feel.

Feel free to post as you like, but please try and keep somewhat to the overall point of the forum.

Your the seven star general everybody is talking about. All heil bjarne would you like my wife to give her vajj to you ma lord. She will give you back massage ma lord
 
Jacob1 said:
bjarne said:
This is the open "rant" forum, where you can, anonoymously, express how you feel.

Feel free to post as you like, but please try and keep somewhat to the overall point of the forum.

Your the seven star general everybody is talking about. All heil bjarne would you like my wife to give her vajj to you ma lord. She will give you back massage ma lord

I think three days for the insult is reasonable. Learn some damn respect for people and THINK before you speak.
 
I hear you on the Bronchitis thing, totally sucks. I don't get very sick often, but hoping i can get rid of this stupid cough. I know last year at my job i got it around Nov and it lasted about two months. So i'm hoping that i can kick it much less than that. Only had it about a few weeks really. Still no fun, but been trying to drink lots of water :)
 
I miss my dog.
Also I'm tired.
Struggling to work again.
Depression is the best ever
 
I need help.
I have been thinking for some time about posting about my issues and problems. I know I have been holding back with that all this time, and I know that the lack of feedback is mostly my fault.

That said, I wanted to change this, to get some feedback, to make you guys understand just a little bit maybe.

So today, I started writing the thread...and finished deleting it. I have no idea where to start, and what to say, and what to focus on.
I know that I´m rather confused, and my thoughts are really a mess, so it may be hard to do.

So, searching for your advice, and help...How do I do it? Where do I start? What do I do?

I thank in advance for all of you who take time to answer.
 
Mr.YellowCat said:
I need help.
I have been thinking for some time about posting about my issues and problems. I know I have been holding back with that all this time, and I know that the lack of feedback is mostly my fault.

That said, I wanted to change this, to get some feedback, to make you guys understand just a little bit maybe.

So today, I started writing the thread...and finished deleting it. I have no idea where to start, and what to say, and what to focus on.
I know that I´m rather confused, and my thoughts are really a mess, so it may be hard to do.

So, searching for your advice, and help...How do I do it? Where do I start? What do I do?

I thank in advance for all of you who take time to answer.

Here's what I'd do. Try writing what you're comfortable writing, but mention your difficulties in putting all this on paper. That way, if you want to add a point or something later on in the thread, they know in advance that's what's going on. You can give the bare bones of it and flesh them out as you feel more comfortable posting these issues.

I hope it works out for you. :)
 
Mr.YellowCat said:
I need help.
I have been thinking for some time about posting about my issues and problems. I know I have been holding back with that all this time, and I know that the lack of feedback is mostly my fault.

That said, I wanted to change this, to get some feedback, to make you guys understand just a little bit maybe.

So today, I started writing the thread...and finished deleting it. I have no idea where to start, and what to say, and what to focus on.
I know that I´m rather confused, and my thoughts are really a mess, so it may be hard to do.

So, searching for your advice, and help...How do I do it? Where do I start? What do I do?

I thank in advance for all of you who take time to answer.

Mr Seal made some good points you could consider.

Try to pin point what exactly is it that you need help with first? And make that your objective.

Then you can go straight to the point - I feel that it's easier that way cos for me, I tend to ramble a lot so keeping focus and going straight to the point won't make my post too lengthy - but that's just for me.

You could do that, go straight to the point of why you're creating the thread and what you need help with, then after that, start explaining about this issue that you have. If you need a guideline, you can go with using the 5W1H (who, what-but you would have stated this above already, when, where, why, how) to check which areas you wanna include. You don't necessarily have to have all of those of course. But just a guideline, if you need that - you may not need it. Cos I'm not sure what you're stuck with really.

Maybe your mind isn't clear and it's still filled with what you're thinking about? It's good to try and breathe, clear your mind and try to focus on what help you need from here. I know how daunting it can be to write a thread, especially with issues that are really bothering you. Try to take it easy okay? And take your time.

Good luck, Mr. Yellowcat. Looking forward to see your thread.
 
I´d like to thank both Mr. Seal the Albatros and Ladyforsaken for answering and helping me, even though I´m doing so with a bit of delay. And with that, also say sorry for wasting your time.
It would be dishonorable not to say that the project is postponed indefinitely due my problems with creating it still stand strong, and thinking about it, it seems less and less like a good idea.

So I´d like to thank you, and I hope this doesnt discourage you from giving advice, and being kind, to other people. You were very kind to take time with answering me, and I wish you both the best.
Thank you and sorry for bothering.

Take care guys:)
 
Don't worry, Mr Yellowcat. I was sincere, and you should take your time and feel comfortable when you decide to do what you planned on doing. No worries, yeah? Always here if you need help with anything else. You take care too.
 
Hey guys..I was missing for a while...don't really know how to start posting again...I kinda felt my life would get better..I thought that I had people in real life who would finally understand me...I thought I could now stop trying to find understanding from strange people...
And now I'm back...it seems I was wrong...but you guys never leave...you're always there when someone needs you..
I'm glad I came back...
 
i just feel sad most of the time.living all alone after escaped from my real parents who has been abused me.is there anyone here who is in similar situation.i need good company to know i'm not the alone.
 

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