Questions for the Men

[Sterling]

Most women's breasts are not the same size anyway.

 

[9006]

It's such a cliché that guys only look for big boobs. You mention younger men because it probably applies more to them, it's something that comes with maturity.

*Shrugs*

 

[Boring-Weirdo]

I'd like to know if any younger men like, or even better, prefer small breasts. I've only heard men in their forties or above even mention them, and it's very disheartening.

Breasts of any size are fine for me, though preferably they're symmetrical.

Like she can help it if her breasts aren't symmetrical.

Who can help anything about themselves? Nonetheless, we spend every waking moment evaluating and judging each other.

 

[9006]

Nonetheless, we spend every waking moment evaluating and judging each other.

I think this is a bit of an overstatement. Personal experience, perhaps?

 

[Boring-Weirdo]

Nonetheless, we spend every waking moment evaluating and judging each other.

I think this is a bit of an overstatement. Personal experience, perhaps?

You are correct, it is an overstatement. I just think this "everyone is wonderful in their own way" stuff is malarkey.

Like many, I really do believe that objectively people are equal. However, people are not treated or valued equally by each other. I find it counterproductive to pretend otherwise.

 

[ardour]

You are correct, it is an overstatement. I just think this "everyone is wonderful in their own way" stuff is malarkey.

Like many, I really do believe that objectively people are equal. However, people are not treated or valued equally by each other. I find it counterproductive to pretend otherwise.

It's the standards which you say everyone judges by that I have a problem with. We don't all think the same way, like the same things.

What you rate as perfect in women appearance wise (a '10') I would likely find quite bland.

 

[Boring-Weirdo]

You are correct, it is an overstatement. I just think this "everyone is wonderful in their own way" stuff is malarkey.

Like many, I really do believe that objectively people are equal. However, people are not treated or valued equally by each other. I find it counterproductive to pretend otherwise.

It's the standards by which you judge value that I have a problem with.

What you would rate as perfect in women appearance wise (a '10') I would find quite bland.

Let's take appearance out of it then. Which do you think is more valued by society: heart-surgeon or homeless-person?

 

[ardour]

But I thought it was about appearance.

 

[Boring-Weirdo]

But I thought it was about appearance.

Only partly. We make value judgments about everything, especially when it comes to interpersonal relationships.

 

[ShybutHi]

Let's take appearance out of it then. Which do you think is more valued by society: heart-surgeon or homeless-person?

Where does societal value really come into this? Who cares what "society" thinks if you are attracted to a person... It simply does not matter.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I actually don't care that much about breasts. Who cares if they aren't the same size?

 

[Solivagant]

Let's take appearance out of it then. Which do you think is more valued by society: heart-surgeon or homeless-person?

Where does societal value really come into this? Who cares what "society" thinks if you are attracted to a person... It simply does not matter.

+1

 

[edgecrusher]

I actually don't care that much about breasts. Who cares if they aren't the same size?

This. On top of not caring about different sized ones, I could just as easily be fine with a woman having large breasts, or even like no breasts. For the most part I think beauty comes in all shapes and sizes and I think certain just match the way the rest of their body is.

 

[Limlim]

I very much approve of this lengthy discussion involving boobs.

 

[Fluffy]

Hope this is the right subject I can post this in.

If a guy says he sees a lot of him in you.(female) is it a good sign?

 

[EveWasFramed]

Hope this is the right subject I can post this in.

If a guy says he sees a lot of him in you.(female) is it a good sign?

Depends on whether or not he likes himself.

 

[panfruit]

I actually don't care that much about breasts. Who cares if they aren't the same size?

The owners, mostly, depending on the disparity. If significantly asymmetrical in mass then other would certainly notice also, and if there's one thing that looks bad with most all human anatomy, it's asymmetry.

 

[OnlyMe]

Hope this is the right subject I can post this in.

If a guy says he sees a lot of him in you.(female) is it a good sign?

Depends on whether or not he likes himself.

I agree with Eve.

As a guy, I think it's a good thing.

Someone who is similar to yourself is likely to be more understanding about some of the traits and qualities that you share.

Maybe ask him what it is that he sees in you that reminds him of himself?

 

[murmi97]

Do any of y'all mind about magazines (and others) photo-shopping pornographic and other aesthetic-themed pictures of women, especially you guys who are visually stimulated by them? Or do you just accept them(the manipulated pictures) as they are?

 

[painter's radio]

You mean like air-brushing etc?

I can appreciate the colours/vibrancy and any artistic merit in a heavily-processed photograph but personally I much prefer the more natural look. I don't like the pressure these industries put on both men and women to look "sexy" I think it's disgusting honeysuckle, especially for teenage girls. And when it's so heavily pushed in our faces all the time it creates a counter-movement with people saying things like "Real women have curves, no one wants to hug a stick" and all that. Equally vile. I'll be blunt here and say I much prefer real amateur porn to professional studio too much make-up lighting fake tits fake tan fake orgasms dyed blonde hair porn. I'd rather jerk off to a plate or a pair of shoes or a nice house or the limited edition Breaking Bad box-set, or any other non-sentient inanimate object, tbh.