Rules

[Minus]

I believe their opinion is just as welcome as yours.

 

[Skorian]

I believe their opinion is just as welcome as yours.

The problem is that it ends up being something like this. Don't build a road, because people will get to their destination anyway. Arguing that dirt is as good as cement.

Don't build a house, just live in the dirt. You will get cold sometimes anyway.

It is too easy to decide a reason to not do anything in any situation, rather then the reason to do something. It literally goes no where.

Stating that something can't be perfect, isn't a statement of opinion. Nothing can be perfect, it isn't possible. Perfection doesn't exist. An opinion would be an actual reason for or against something based upon something that does exist.

 

[Minus]

Their opinion is as welcome as yours.

 

[EveWasFramed]

Their opinion is as welcome as yours.

*chuckles*

Minus

 

[IgnoredOne]

Brevity is the soul of wit.

 

[Skorian]

Their opinion is as welcome as yours.

*chuckles*

Minus

How mature. *smirk* And thank you.

As if I care if you like me or not. It solves nothing. The answer to every problem is not to be liked or to be nice. Many times being too nice actually harms people and is not in their best interest. Even if they do think they want that.

Now and then I run into folks who seem to want to make me angry and all they get is a smirk and a grimace. Anger is a nearly useless emotion, it is very irrational and leads to irrational behavior. Don't really know what you think your doing, but whatever it is it is lame.

 

[SophiaGrace]

So, you basically just said Eve was trying to troll you.

 

[Skorian]

So, you basically just said Eve was trying to troll you.

I have no idea, nor care. It is just lame no matter what it's intent.

Probably won't believe what I say either. People are so predictible. *snort*

 

[Callie]

Their opinion is as welcome as yours.

*chuckles*

Minus

How mature. *smirk* And thank you.

As if I care if you like me or not. It solves nothing. The answer to every problem is not to be liked or to be nice. Many times being too nice actually harms people and is not in their best interest. Even if they do think they want that.

Now and then I run into folks who seem to want to make me angry and all they get is a smirk and a grimace. Anger is a nearly useless emotion, it is very irrational and leads to irrational behavior. Don't really know what you think your doing, but whatever it is it is lame.

Mountain... mole hill.
wow, just wow.

 

[Skorian]

Mountain... mole hill.
wow, just wow.

Huh? Isn't it usually people turn a mole hill into a mountain?

 

[Chasm]

this thread is just turning in2 a really good LoL xample that proves Kamya's point in a way
but on the other side of the coin?
sum ppl just have no respect 4 others n even if u stamped rules on their 4head?
they wouldnt treat ppl decently NE way
so sad

so but either way?
maybe having everything all in 1 place COULD help the other type of person who just doesnt follow rules bcuz theyre unclear/scattered

 

[Skorian]

this thread is just turning in2 a really good LoL xample that proves Kamya's point in a way
but on the other side of the coin?
sum ppl just have no respect 4 others n even if u stamped rules on their 4head?
they wouldnt treat ppl decently NE way
so sad

so but either way?
maybe having everything all in 1 place COULD help the other type of person who just doesnt follow rules bcuz theyre unclear/scattered

The problem with this forum is that on most forums a troll is someone who prevents things from working, fuctioning, progressing, or being productive, whatever word you want to choose. Feelings are simply a part of what breaks things, not the problem in itself. The problem is not that they hurt peoples feelings. Feelings are simply the means by which things fall apart. Not sure how to best explain, someone smarter may be able to more effectively word this. This forum generally has no real fuction and doesn't really accomplish very much. It's function seems to be about making people feel better. That however is not a solution for people who feel bad in general and need a constant fix. Not everyone is that way or to the same extent, but in general that is the case. Some people really benifit here, but I would say that most do not.

The problem is that kindness can be for selfless or selfish reasons. Wanting to be liked can be for selfish or selfless reasons. This forum seems to be of the selfish variety. Mental illness can be defined as repeatedly doing things that do not work. For most with mental illness kindness tends to be a crutch. Mental health experts prey upon this for an income. People who are mentally ill can be extremely nice when they want to be and tend to crave kindness to an excessive extent. They want to feel justified in their feelings no matter what and look for that reinforcement. It is simply a continuation of the problem to reinforce and encourage that problem.

The same applies with trying to support people in having a none functioning opinion. Yes, it is nice to be nice, but it doesn't really solve problems. This forum has hardly changed in years. It is stuck.

The point of rules would be to look at judgement beyond just protecting peoples feelings. Rules would be a reminder that there are more important things at stake. This forum is sick and needs treatment. It has since Bluey stepped down. I would never be a moderator. I simply do not have the patience or desire to be one. That doesn't mean that people can't step up and grow to actually accomplish something. This didn't have to be a mental illness site, but it has been made into one.

I expect better even from people who are mentally ill. They have to be expected to have some insight into their problems. It is sad to see people wallowing in mental illness and encouraging it in others.

Be angry, childish, discredit me. Whatever. If you do I will simply think it is sad and pathetic.

I am already considering contacting the athorities in regards to things said here. Some may play it as a joke or not serious, but something really horrible could come from what goes on here. It is possible it has already happened. People wouldn't even know. How funny will it be if I look into having the site impounded or shut down to prevent that? When someone says they want to carve someones face off and people support that..... Something is very wrong. This sick stuff goes on here and it is a red flag.

 

[EveWasFramed]

Actually, it just proves the thread should have been closed immediately, as they ALWAYS lead to this sort of thing.
I wasn't trolling anyone, never said I didnt like anyone, etc. I chuckled at something I thought was humerous.