Seaching On Facebook...

[Lost Soul]

For people who graduated around the same year I did. Looking for people (preferably grils, not to sound creepy) with minimal friends. Maybe I can actually meet people and make friends in my area. It's a long shot but I'm gonna give it a try.

Mostly everyone has so many friends, of well.

 

[Badjedidude]

Uhhhh... ok. Good luck?

 

[tehdreamer]

Do you mean you're looking for people that went to the same school? Because it's a little creepy to look for random people on facebook to try and get them to hang out with you..

 

[Lost Soul]

Do you mean you're looking for people that went to the same school? Because it's a little creepy to look for random people on facebook to try and get them to hang out with you..

Why is it? I don't know any other way and it's not like I'm gonna force them too. I need guidance, but that's something I never gotten so I go about things the only way I know how. I don't mean to be creepy. Besides, the probably graduated the same way I did.

 

[tehdreamer]

I guess I've just private about my facebook; I only add people I already know for at least a short while. I would get a little nervous if someone I didn't know, who lived in the same city, asked me to hang out all of the sudden. But then maybe that's just me.

I'd suggest something like meetup.com if you're not against meeting new people in your area that you don't know. Or looking for local clubs to join like a book club or something similar involving hobbies.

 

[Lost Soul]

I guess I've just private about my facebook; I only add people I already know for at least a short while. I would get a little nervous if someone I didn't know, who lived in the same city, asked me to hang out all of the sudden. But then maybe that's just me.

I'd suggest something like meetup.com if you're not against meeting new people in your area that you don't know. Or looking for local clubs to join like a book club or something similar involving hobbies.

No, it's not that. I wouldn't ask them to hangout right away I meant after a long while or something. The only problem is, how to communicate to them, that is, if they accept my friend request.

 

[tehdreamer]

I don't know. I just wing it lol. Talk about life, random stuff, try to throw in some funny or fun stuff. I'm pretty awful at keeping a PM or email conversation going and I'm much better at live things like chats or IMs.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Looking for females with minimal friends? What difference does it make how many friends they have? I don't think looking for desperate people works.

 

[Lost Soul]

Looking for females with minimal friends? What difference does it make how many friends they have? I don't think looking for desperate people works.

Because if you look for people who have lots of friends, like most people, chances are very slim I'll become friends with them and most popular people are mean and are the same. Why would they become friends with me when they got all they're other friends and best friends life etc.

 

[tehdreamer]

I know a lot of people, but they aren't really close friends. You'll also find that most people on places like facebook have a hundreds of "friends" most of whom they know nothing about. People tend to add random strangers to play the app games with and others just add anyone who asks.

I think I have about 20 on my list, but I only talk to maybe 2 or 3 on a consistent basis. Consistent being a couple times a week, if that.

Alternatively, you could just try to become friends with people on this forum. Lots of people here need friends

 

[Vic Sage]

Looking for females with minimal friends? What difference does it make how many friends they have? I don't think looking for desperate people works.

Actually, I totally get where he's coming from. Why would he want to befriend someone who has a full wall that's got a new post every fifteen minutes, and 1,000s of friends? Like likes like. Granted, it may not be healthy, normal or "right" to seek out desperate people... but we're all lonely (or at least we should be unless we made an inappropriate turn somewhere) and we're all taking solace in others who are lonely. There's a reason why I didn't join the forum for male models with amazing senses of humor and hearts as big as the world.

Basically my advice for Lost Soul would be to find an autistic support group, online or in person, preferably in person. If there's not that many options, maybe a move to somewhere with a higher level of autism? It's a rising phenomenon, so I can't imagine he'd be this lonely for long...