Mike510 said:Mr.YellowCat said:But the thing that seems really sad for me is seeing how desperate she is. You may leave her, okay, but after you, there will be another that will leave her, and another, and another. Even if it is her fault. But she will never get better, and I can only imagine her being sad, and crying at night into the pillow asking what is wrong with her, why does no one ever want to be with her.
Damn now your actually making me feel bad for doing that to her
You shouldn't feel bad; she clearly has a problem. It sounds like you're not ready for what she wants and that's perfectly fine. Sit down with her and tell her how you really feel. And if she's not already getting help, you should politely suggest it, for her benefit.