she now has a boyfriend wtf!

[Okiedokes]

Yeah, she probably wasn't interested in you more than a friend.

 

[roguewave]

By "****** ass boyfriend" do you mean that her new boyfriend isn't a testosterone pumping beefcake, like you?

That could explain everything.

 

[SophiaGrace]

She's not interested in you obviously. Next

Necro-bumping this sort of seems passive-agressive on your part since the OP is likely never to see your response.

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By "****** ass boyfriend" do you mean that her new boyfriend isn't a testosterone pumping beefcake, like you?

That could explain everything.

Why people think it's okay to say the other F-word is beyond me. Unless they're referring to cigarettes or a bundle of sticks.

 

[Loser#1]

No Sophia just being honest. She clearly has no interest. Who cares if she has a boyfriend he needs to suck it up and move forward. Had she been interested she woulda made time, they always do

 

[Redtulips7]

Dude sooo Fuc*ing what what she have or what she does...Fuc* her and move on...you will find better Person...
I fuc*ing knew this hurt like a hell but remember what she have done to u....remember all the bad things..
Fuc*l all of this good things or memory
Nobody fuc*ing care...
Stop playing Victim..ever
"NO RETREAT NO SURRENDER"

 

[SophiaGrace]

No Sophia just being honest. She clearly has no interest. Who cares if she has a boyfriend he needs to suck it up and move forward. Had she been interested she woulda made time, they always do

OP won't see your reply probably though.

 

[Sterling]

She probably was not interested in you and didn't want to hurt your feelings so she made up an excuse. You can't force someone to be interested in you. They either are or they're not, no big deal. Don't hate her over not having feelings for you.

 

[5pt7art]

it could be that at the time ..she really didnt have any time to be involved with anyone...move on

 

[Sterling]

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You guys probably didn't have anything in common.

 

[Wessik]

A small question: How old are you? You say that you liked her in HS, and that when she sent you a message in Messenger, your interest was immediately sparked up? You may not be at a place, emotionally, where you're ready for a relationship. The level of intensity you show in expressing, for lack of a better word, hatred, towards this girl tells me that this relationship definitely shouldn't happen.

In general, girls do not go out with guys that wait months before asking them out. It is very likely that she simply viewed you as a friend and thought that the feelings were mutual. She most likely was not being an attention whore. In fact, you seem to have made the mistake of thinking that there was some relationship between the two of you.

Unfortunately, waiting a few months before asking a girl out, only to get turned down, does not constitute any kind of relationship. She was under no obligation to you for anything, and you probably scared her a bit when by, "pressing the issue". I would not be surprised if she got herself a boyfriend for security reasons.

In any case, it is all a moot point. You're just out of High School, man! Fresh of the presses. This is not the time to be getting into relationships. Have you been to college? Take a course at your local community college. Try out some new things. Get to know yourself. Nobody has it together just out of HS. Work on improving your-self and your self-esteem. Oh, and forget HS girls. No man in his right mind should ever pursue a serious relationship with a High School girl. It's all just puppy love and other heart-wrenching nonsense.

Don't worry. You got your whole life ahead of you.