Van Hooligan X said:
Lonesome Crow said:
Please...ask yourself why is it that you like selffish women.
If you don't like them, you can simply walk away from them and just leave it at that.
Now you're going to get retarded and go off on a tangent becuase i did a typo.
Then tell me I have my head up my ass too and blame me becuase I can't pleasure you either...lmao
ok this 1 confused me, i don't ever remember saying i liked selfish women and no i don't copy your way of redation
and i don't have my head up my ass, i just find it funny you attack people when they want help from a forum they like, it would be like steel telling a newbie to 'stfu you're ***'
and i'm not reply to you again, whatever you say since you can't even have any respect for ppl when they ask for help ********
You don't have to state that you like selffish women.
wheter you state it all not has no bearing of you still chosing
to be attacted to them.
It's call living in denial.
If you don't like them ..stay the **** away from them..
No one on this planet is required to please you nor
comply to whatever the **** it is you think or want.
As soon as you get that through your thick skull ..the sooner
you can grow the **** up and become responisble for your
own happiness....
No one can hurt you, if you don't lean on them.
You simply turned your will and life over to other people .
You do so beucase it's harder to be responsible for your
own happiness...it is you that is selffish , self centered.
You simply took a path of lease resistence and the easy
way out.
It ain't nothing knew....I didn't make the **** up.
Level headed and healthy people learn how to get there.
Whatever how long it takes them to get there...
Just becuase you find another girl friend to fall in love with for a little while
isn't going to fixed you. As soon as you started depending on her for you happiness..
even if she fucken fart differently or fails to live up to your expactations...you'll simply veiw her as another selffish bitch
that counldn't keep your ass happy. Whether you marry one or get involve in relationships over and over again.
The **** is going to happen...because it is you that didn't grasp the lesson of being responsible for your own happiness
and chose to play victim over and over again. In other words you put yourself in the position to get hurt.
You create you own pains through you demands of other. If people can't live up to you're so call stadard..(whatever that is),
you cry foul and play the victim..because YOU LIKE IT, ITS FAMILAR TO YOU.
It's not the first time or the second time..its a living pattern for you..
That why you say..."women are selffish *******"
Just ones you chose to get involved with...perhasp is a clearer statement.
You can call me a ******** and women selffish ******* all you want. That's just a smoke screen and a banage job.
It not going to make you life any better...
Or you'll simply turn into a control freak...trying control everything and everyone around you to fit your delusions.
Or you'll do other behaviors such as people pleasing, manipulate....etc.
You can alter as many strategy or tactics as you wish but the simple truth is.....
you'll eventaully get to the piont of being responsible for your own happiness ..whatever how much pains and suffering
you chose to get to that piont.
You're not confused...you're defending of living in denial...
You know this...you can feel it in your gut...it makes you sick to your stomuch.
What you say and what you do is two differnt things.
You calling me a ******** dosn't even effect me one bit...
My happiness and my self worth is not dependent whatever the **** you say or think.
I'M RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS.