WishingWell
Well-known member
rdor said:I hate those juvenile and mentally challenged labels. I thought only teenagers used them.
I don't know if it is because I am older than most of the people on here, but I never labled any male or female since I was in high school either.
The only things I think about when I wanted to date a man or get into a relationship since then is whether the man is nice, honest, has a job which pays enough to support himself, and is open to trying my interests, as I would be open to trying his.
I don't expect a man to always be taking me out--I am willing to pay sometimes and pay 1/2 on dates, and he doesn't have to always have to think he has to buy me gifts for no reason.
I want him to communicate with me on all levels. I don't want to have to guess what he likes or doesn't like. I want to decide together on what we are going to do, etc. I don't want to make all the decisions, but I don't want someone who things everything is his choice, not mine.
LASTLY, BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, I DON'T WANT A MAN WHO IS EVER VERBALLY OR PHYSICALLY VIOLENT, and will treat me respect, as I will him.
I don't think that's a lot to ask, is there anyone that thinks it is?