stealing someone elses girl/guy

[EveWasFramed]

Remember that the top 20% steal everyone's girls all the time. They're like mob bosses who get a piece of everything when they feel like it. Even if you were married, she'd still cheat on you occasionally with a top 20% Alpha Bodybuilder.

Are you stuck in some kind of infinite loop?

:club: One of the resident computer experts wanna debug Socrates?

 

[Limlim]

I wonder if there are any posts out there of Socrates that don't contain the words: Alpha, muscles, bodybuilder and 20%

Also, am I the only one here who thinks you shouldn't go after some other dudes girlfriend? It's more and more common these days for long term relationships to be established without getting married simply because some people disagree with the cost, process or legality involved. But for the most part consider themselves the same thing as being so. Something to watch out for. Also, is it so bad to have respect for your fellow man and at least try not to tempt his girlfriend away from him? Just because the rest of the world might treat things as dog eat dog, doesn't mean you have to.

 

[Spare]

All is NOT fair in love and war. Well, at least not in love.

I don't care if a person is married or not; if they are in a committed relationship, they are not "fair game." Be a friend. If a person decides to leave their partner for someone else, that's their decision. But consciously trying to undermine a relationship in the pursuit of an individual is a deplorable thing to do.

Just my two cents.

 

[EveWasFramed]

I wonder if there are any posts out there of Socrates that don't contain the words: Alpha, muscles, bodybuilder and 20%

Also, am I the only one here who thinks you shouldn't go after some other dudes girlfriend? It's more and more common these days for long term relationships to be established without getting married simply because some people disagree with the cost, process or legality involved. But for the most part consider themselves the same thing as being so. Something to watch out for. Also, is it so bad to have respect for your fellow man and at least try not to tempt his girlfriend away from him? Just because the rest of the world might treat things as dog eat dog, doesn't mean you have to.

I resisted posting on this one, but I can't help but notice that you and I are on the same page, Derek.
I know that everyone's situations can be different, but there really should be some "boundries" in place, unless the parties in the relationship don't claim any kind of exclusivity.
*shrug* Just my two cents.

I also agree about Socrates. lmao

 

[EveWasFramed]

All is NOT fair in love and war. Well, at least not in love.

I don't care if a person is married or not; if they are in a committed relationship, they are not "fair game." Be a friend. If a person decides to leave their partner for someone else, that's their decision. But consciously trying to undermine a relationship in the pursuit of an individual is a deplorable thing to do.

Just my two cents.

Very nice, Spare. Perfect.

 

[Badjedidude]

But consciously trying to undermine a relationship in the pursuit of an individual is a deplorable thing to do.

That be why they call me a Sith.

You're far too honorable for your own good, man. But ya still earn ma respek fer it.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

You can steal my current GF..i dont give a ****.... Hahahaa

U cant steal her. A woman makes her own decisions . She dosnt belong to anyone. Give her more repect and credit. SheS free to do whatever the **** she wants. She dosnt wanna stay in a relationship for whatever her reasons are. Its really no one bussiness Judging her is not going matter dooo dooo. Becuz shes going to do whatever is right N best for her. It her life. And no one can live her life for her.
She sure as hell dont need my approval or permission to live
Thats what makes relationship go fucken south...people think they own their partner and stop working on the relationship..take **** for granted ..and it a stud like me for ******* to stay on their toes and seek marriage couseling after their wives flirts with me or wanna **** me...

 

[cookie]

Go ahead and steal her. It's a dog-eat-dog-world. Just make sure you have the muscles and the martial arts skills to fight the other dude when he comes to beat the **** out of you.

LMAO
LOOOOL

OMG, this is so funny, but so true at the same time.
:club:

 

[Naleena]

I'm with Lonesome in that you can't steal anyone. They come and go as they please. My motto is if a woman can steal my man, she can have him. You can't hold onto relationships or people. Best way to deal with relationships is to let go. WHats meant to be will be. What isn't meant to be won't. However, there is a thing called integrity. You shouldn't go after someone who has a BF or GF and they shouldn't be so underhanded as to agree to it. If she likes you, she should break it off with him. Three people can't start a relationship. And for what it's worth..Karma is a ***** and she will bite you in the ***. We all get what we deserve in the end.

 

[Spare]

You're far too honorable for your own good, man.

There are times when I agree with this. But then I figure that if I weren't, I just wouldn't be me.

 

[Mr. Sir]

Go ahead and steal her. It's a dog-eat-dog-world. Just make sure you have the muscles and the martial arts skills to fight the other dude when he comes to beat the **** out of you.

LMAO
LOOOOL

OMG, this is so funny, but so true at the same time.
:club:

In all honesty, I don't know what to say. In a sense I want the OP to take the dominant position in this and make sweet love to this girl, taking control of the situation and getting the results he wants, but I do have to warn that this girl's feelings and behaviors could do a 180 against you at any time, and you may be looking at a workplace sexual harassment charge if it doesn't work.

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^Exactly.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Jenni nevered stole me from Sherry Or i nevered stoled Jenni from her ex..
We were in a toxic relationship..the fucken be loyal, integrigy N honor ******** nearly killed the both of us.
It took years for Jenni to form a loving relationship . She used to call me every satureday night when her BF was out at Bars And my Ex Gf was @ the casino
it was wierd becuase we would seperate fron our partner time aftter time...
I was so stupid..she finally had to ask me out..becuase this very same delihma....
Jenni loved and cared for me very much. As i love and cherrish her.
I miss her so much. Regrets I have **** load of regrets..I woke up 5 yrs later after I met her N she was dead..

It took a very beauiful woman like jenni the wake Sherry the **** up too..

Thats just me experince..its not alll or be all...

The OP didnt give enough informations or he might know everything abiout what happening it the womans rlestionship.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Just by the title of this thread, I think it's wrong. But, people do what they want anyway. Do what you think is right for you to do.

 

[aditya]

because of your post i think you'll love to read these poem...
http://dranixxx.blogspot.com/

 

[A Desolate Soul]

as some of these comments have said, women are not possessions that can be stolen. she's a big girl and can make her own decisions. i would say just go for it. if for some reason she's not faithful and/or she's very unhappy with her current relationship and decides to go out with you, then congrats! you have a girlfriend. if not, then at least you can say you tried. honestly, I'd be more devastated if i had to wonder for the rest of my life "what if...?"

 

[Badjedidude]

as some of these comments have said, women are not possessions that can be stolen. she's a big girl and can make her own decisions. i would say just go for it. if for some reason she's not faithful and/or she's very unhappy with her current relationship and decides to go out with you, then congrats! you have a girlfriend. if not, then at least you can say you tried. honestly, I'd be more devastated if i had to wonder for the rest of my life "what if...?"

Yup. This.

 

[INTJ]

'Steal' implies that something/someone is 'owned.' You can't 'steal' a person. You can alienate their affection, but you can't steal them (unless you're a kidnapper or a slaver, of course).

If someone's not married they're fair game -- unless they're dating a friend that you want to keep as a friend. And, despite common belief, it's OK to date a friend's ex because they had their chance and either blew it or broke up with him/her.

 

[shells]

All is NOT fair in love and war. Well, at least not in love.

I don't care if a person is married or not; if they are in a committed relationship, they are not "fair game." Be a friend. If a person decides to leave their partner for someone else, that's their decision. But consciously trying to undermine a relationship in the pursuit of an individual is a deplorable thing to do.

Just my two cents.

I agree completely.

 

[NOAH_FX]

Go ahead and steal her. It's a dog-eat-dog-world. Just make sure you have the muscles and the martial arts skills to fight the other dude when he comes to beat the **** out of you.

Remember, if you weren't stealing other guys' girlfriends, then they'd be stealing them from you.

However, BECAUSE this is a workplace scenario, you might wanna just **** the whole thing. Women act on instincts, and change their emotions in a heartbeat. Maybe she puts out Monday, and maybe she hates you Tuesday. In the workplace there are SERIOUS sexual harassment laws that you shouldn't break, and if you **** this **** up, and the girl who "likes" you today decides she doesn't like you tomorrow, you will get an asskicking from the boyfriend, and also get called a stalker at work by this girl, which could potentially lead to a sexual harassment charge and you losing your job.

Don't **** where you eat, aka don't try to bone co-workers. Even the roughest, toughest PUAs I know advise against this.

You do know this isn't highschool right? Ever heard of an assault charge? Trust me, they suck.

But it's always good to have Nunchuck Skillz, just in case