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There will always be people who take exception to us, everywhere. Its best to focus on those who can appreciate you for who you are.
 
Arsenic Queen said:
-no one cares. why keep any of my honeysuckle up?

I've already learned to appreciate your wit- please keep your honeysuckle up.
 
already got 2 haters plus one person taking me for a shitty slut. all I felt I tried was to be friendly and funny, I dont understand. now i just want to get kicked at until i die from it


sorry IgnoredOne and Lonely In BC, you're cool. some other people here are cool too. but i just want to tear myself up right now. I only tried to be nice and helpful and friendly and i get treated like a slut and blocked by some people for complimenting them. I've been in dire emotional pain for years. i thought a place like this could be a new shelter to try. what a fool.
 
Aresnic Queen please dont go away. Ive only talked to you a little bit but you seem really cool. Some people are just asses, try to ignore them.

Also, I saw what you typed in your profile now too and wanted to say some more. I am sorry you are depressed. Ive been feeling like honeysuckle a long time too and ended up flunking this semester of college and had to come back to see my parents and tell them this. I've been really lonely and not happy with myself for a long time. Im usually ignored even on internet forums like this, so you responding to me and talking to me cheered me up quite a bit. So I am sorry if people on here have been making you feel worse, but some of us here do like you and want to get to know you better.
 
21accepted you're really sweet too.

I know there's some really cool and decent people here. What broke me in two the most is to be taken for a slut. It's just a stupid thing from one young guy with healthy hormones, should be taken for a compliment I guess. but for some reason it made me feel like I had failed the last few years of my life. which were spent at becoming a better-looking person so I felt better about myself. I had spent most of my life not taking a good care of me, and looking bad, and feeling like honeysuckle about it; now that I found ways to look better I get treated like I was a shallow dumbhead, like sex is probably all I'm good at. it hurts.

 
i wouldnt take everything people say to seriously.
not the most stable people around here :p
plenty of nice and helpfull people but loosers are everywhere.
and here they tend to be a little more disturbed than usual.
just ignore them, nothing they say matters at all.
 
I realy like you, i enjoy reading your posts, and i wanted to put you on my buddy list because i feel we think alike... we are both very smart and wise lol. Anyway as Paulo said, some people here have issues, lol ok we all do... that said, not everyone here is able to react appropritly to certain responses. just be yourself, you are awsome. PS: People who think we are sluts are not getting any and are frustrated lol, beeing confortable with sexuality is one of the most healthy things a human beeing can achieve,
 
I hate bullies. I'm suffering from a terrible one in life at the moment.

Can't you block them on here AQ? Or put them on ignore? (I'm new and not much of a techie)

 
Excuse me for not knowing the full details here but if anyone from this site is giving you grief then please let one of the moderators know. No one likes bullies, especially on these boards, so if something is going on behind closed doors then tell the folks in charge.

A lot of people want you to stay, fresia the haters, if someone is being an ******* then they’ve got far too many problems themselves.
 
The one thing that forums have in common is idiots. Don't let a couple idiots ruin your experience on this site, Arsenic Queen. There are more good people than idiots on here.
 
Also, some people are a bit distracted and are often on other websites, chatrooms etc at the time.

Sorry if people have seemed rude to you AQ, but I've found your posts helpful :)
 
Arsenic Queen said:
-no one cares. why keep any of my honeysuckle up?

I care, pm me, if you want.. we chat, I make you feel better (:)

Arsenic Queen said:
already got 2 haters plus one person taking me for a shitty slut. all I felt I tried was to be friendly and funny, I dont understand. now i just want to get kicked at until i die from it


sorry IgnoredOne and Lonely In BC, you're cool. some other people here are cool too. but i just want to tear myself up right now. I only tried to be nice and helpful and friendly and i get treated like a slut and blocked by some people for complimenting them. I've been in dire emotional pain for years. i thought a place like this could be a new shelter to try. what a fool.

Honey please.... if I had a quarter for all the shitty girls who hated on me, I would be a millionaire !! hee hee

I love cock, does that make me a slut?WHO CARES!! no shame in my game! and if I even bothered to give a fresia what people thought of me, I would be a really depressed girl for it... I rather worry about other things... like getting laid!

 
Thanks IgnoredOne, Lonely In BC, 21Accepted, paulo, whispers, ForEverything, Lost Drifter, Dude, Purple, Princess. You're all awesome, it was kind of you to stop by and talk. I needed that, and you made me feel better. Thanks for all the love. Hugs.

It's not you Purple, two people have blocked me in PMs while I was trying to treat them well, I think you're a sweet girl, and your posts are cool. :)
 
IgnoredOne said:
There will always be people who take exception to us, everywhere. Its best to focus on those who can appreciate you for who you are.
Ohhhhh yes. Without fail.

Arsenic Queen said:
already got 2 haters plus one person taking me for a shitty slut. all I felt I tried was to be friendly and funny, I dont understand. now i just want to get kicked at until i die from it


sorry IgnoredOne and Lonely In BC, you're cool. some other people here are cool too. but i just want to tear myself up right now. I only tried to be nice and helpful and friendly and i get treated like a slut and blocked by some people for complimenting them. I've been in dire emotional pain for years. i thought a place like this could be a new shelter to try. what a fool.
Honey trust us, we get it. This place is amazing, you just have to let go of the parts you can't control. You can't control what others think or say but you can control how you react!

paulo said:
i wouldnt take everything people say to seriously.
not the most stable people around here :p
plenty of nice and helpfull people but loosers are everywhere.
and here they tend to be a little more disturbed than usual.
just ignore them, nothing they say matters at all.
^ a lot of wisdom there.

DudeIAm said:
The one thing that forums have in common is idiots. Don't let a couple idiots ruin your experience on this site, Arsenic Queen. There are more good people than idiots on here.
The internet makes it easy for people to be cruel and small minded. Even here!

But most of all, I just came back after a bit of an absence and I already like you, so hang in there, kay?
 
ForEverythingAReason said:
I hate bullies. I'm suffering from a terrible one in life at the moment.
My last significant love relationship was with a terrible one. his best friend was one too, and he was in love with me too. what a pair that was, believe me.


Thanks Vivi. Gotta agree with those quotes and your comments, and I agree with you about the internet, it's indeed easy to say and do alot of things from a safe distance. Not sure why you like me already, but it's good to hear. Hugs. :)
 
Arsenic Queen said:
Thanks Vivi. Gotta agree with those quotes and your comments, and I agree with you about the internet, it's indeed easy to say and do alot of things from a safe distance. Not sure why you like me already, but it's good to hear. Hugs. :)

Well I don't know, you seem like a nice enough person =] Keep your chin up!
 
If no one cares, why bother going through the process of erasing all your posts? ;)

But seriously though, I second all the previous words of wisdom. The key to surviving the internet is blocking out the crap and just focusing on the support. It seems like you've found something on this forum that you enjoy, otherwise I doubt you'd still be here. Keep with the good stuff and ignore whatever bothers you; that's what I do.
 
Equinox said:
But seriously though, I second all the previous words of wisdom. The key to surviving the internet is blocking out the crap and just focusing on the support. It seems like you've found something on this forum that you enjoy, otherwise I doubt you'd still be here. Keep with the good stuff and ignore whatever bothers you; that's what I do.

Words to live by.
 
Equinox has said it best. I think you've already got a bit of a fan base going A.Q.- your point of view in your postings and the thoughts expressed are refreshing.

I also enjoy NoLife Princesses input on pretty much everything she chimes in on- kind of blunt but dam funny. Reminds me of my favorite Aunt (that's a compliment N.L.P).
 

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