The link between virginity and the mind

[CenotaphGirl]

Yes I agree, but my point is that it is not just the physical act of sex by itself.
It's being wanted.

Yeah no I agree too, I was just talking about the effects of sex on the mind, however, being wanted, cared for loved liked is important too I completely agree with ya

Sex releases chemicals that affect the brain and the link between that and virginity is interesting to me

 

[TheRealCallie]

to the point they can form whole communities based on this one uniting factor.

This is true of any group of people that experience or think alike.

 

[okidoke]

Yeah no I agree too, I was just talking about the effects of sex on the mind, however, being wanted, cared for loved liked is important too I completely agree with ya

Sex releases chemicals that affect the brain and the link between that and virginity is interesting to me

Endorphines, which are released when many pleasurable things are done, like eating certain foods.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Endorphines, which are released when many pleasurable things are done, like eating certain foods.

Im talking about the change in these chemicals affect on the brain and body so for example a women may experience uterine contractions after sex but not when eating food. This is usually why some women have intercourse to speed up labour for example.

This is true of any group of people that experience or think alike.

but like there aren't group's of men who have slept with 3 women for example just 0 women. Why do the “zero women” men feel so familial to each other?

 

[TheRealCallie]

I think you're taking this a little too far. There are no "oh, I only slept with 4.5 women, where's my group" There are categories. The virgins, the people with an average number of partners. and the manwhores.

 

[TheRealCallie]

for example a women may experience uterine contractions after sex but not when eating food

Except that there are several foods that are said to induce labor.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I think you're taking this a little too far. There are no "oh, I only slept with 4.5 women, where's my group" There are categories. The virgins, the people with an average number of partners. and the manwhores.

The virgins are very familial with each other Callie, search mirror or twin or the same on the virgin threads you will see it come up a lot, they feel as if they have found their long lost virgin brother when they meet another and I think this phenomenon is highly linked to chemicals but I will deep dive on youtube to make sure my seemingly original idea is original

Except that there are several foods that are said to induce labor.

Raspberry leaf tea and others but its not due to the same chemicals

 

[TheRealCallie]

The virgins are very familial with each other Callie, search mirror or twin or the same on the virgin threads you will see it come up a lot, they feel as if they have found their long lost virgin brother when they meet another and I think this phenomenon is highly linked to chemicals but I will deep dive on youtube to make sure my seemingly original idea is original


Raspberry leaf tea and others but its not due to the same chemicals

But it's not really about the what that brings them together, it's more about the like mindedness and camaraderie it brings.

As for the chemicals of labor, sure, the chemicals might be different, but it ends in the same result. For example, spicy foods are said to induce labor. This is because it can cause issues in the digestive tract, which can also stimulate uterine contractions. So regardless of the actual cause, the end result is the same.

 

[Unsigned]

This is usually why some women have intercourse to speed up labour for example.

With a pregnant woman???
Yuck.

EDIT:
I know this is "a thing" for some guys...I know of a few mongers in the past who have sought out pregnant providers.
But to me it's a great big yuck.

 

[TheRealCallie]

With a pregnant woman???
Yuck.

EDIT:
I know this is "a thing" for some guys...I know of a few mongers in the past who have sought out pregnant providers.
But to me it's a great big yuck.

Well, it's not all that fun for women a lot of the time either because they ARE that pregnant and they ARE right about to deliver, but when you get to a certain point in the pregnancy, you will literally try ANYTHING to get that baby to come out. lol

 

[Unsigned]

Well, it's not all that fun for women a lot of the time either because they ARE that pregnant and they ARE right about to deliver, but when you get to a certain point in the pregnancy, you will literally try ANYTHING to get that baby to come out. lol

If they're showin'...I ain't goin'...

 

[okidoke]

Never worked with my three kids

Im talking about the change in these chemicals affect on the brain and body so for example a women may experience uterine contractions after sex but not when eating food. This is usually why some women have intercourse to speed up labour for example......

Didn't help with any of my three kids

With a pregnant woman???
Yuck.

EDIT:
I know this is "a thing" for some guys...I know of a few mongers in the past who have sought out pregnant providers.
But to me it's a great big yuck.

Mate, when it's your wife and your child and there's love there, it's not a yucky thing at all.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

If they're showin'...I ain't goin'...

Lool im crying is this the one and only time I can say “man up”? Only joking I have heard some pregnancy horror stories honestly… but men aren't allowed to refuse sex socially, they must perform the show must go on! I think its a sad reality a lot of them face

 

[user 139760]

Mate, when it's your wife and your child and there's love there, it's not a yucky thing at all.

Gotta agree with that.
In the case of my ex when she was pregnant, it wasn't at all a yucky thing. Though it didn't happen that often because we had other things on our minds (like trying not to strangle each other, in the last month or so) but when it did happen, it was great.
It also wasn't just a case of helping the pregnancy along. Sometimes...girls and guys just want to have fun

 

[okidoke]

... men aren't allowed to refuse sex socially,....

What do you mean by socially? And I've refused sex several times.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

What do you mean by socially? And I've refused sex several times.

Like theres a social expectation that men cannot refuse sex without something being “wrong” with him. Not just by women but also other men.

I have heard the “what’s the matter with you, get in there” line more times than I can count. Men being slapped and stormed out on for refusal and so on and so on due to that societal standard I didnt even know men could refuse sex I thought they just were permanently ready to go.

 

[okidoke]

Like theres a social expectation that men cannot refuse sex without something being “wrong” with him. Not just by women but also other men.

I have heard the “what’s the matter with you, get in there” line more times than I can count. Men being slapped and stormed out on for refusal and so on and so on due to that societal standard I didnt even know men could refuse sex I thought they just were permanently ready to go.

I've never been in group sexual situations to have heard that before. I've not known of this social expectation to be true with any group of people that I have ever socialised with. Different circles I guess.

 

[user 135671]

I don't really understand the conversation in this thread. I've refused sex more often than I've indulged, I've never felt or been told it was expected. Once you've sown your oats sex isn't that big a deal. I've never been able to walk away from an overdriven Stratocaster plugged into a Marshall stack though ... no idea what that says about me

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I've never been in group sexual situations to have heard that before. I've not known of this social expectation to be true with any group of people that I have ever socialised with. Different circles I guess.

Wow yeah maybe age too im a lot younger than most people on here, also I think a lot of male issues are ignored or swept under the rug as … oh well but contributes to wider issues . However a 2021 UK study found 50% of men have had unwanted sex… also even just not really wanting to have a look at a woman was considered unacceptable, if some guys said, check her out… for example.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I don't really understand the conversation in this thread. I've refused sex more often than I've indulged, I've never felt or been told it was expected. Once you've sown your oats sex isn't that big a deal. I've never been able to walk away from an overdriven Stratocaster plugged into a Marshall stack though ... no idea what that says about me

Lool neither do I…. but im glad men feel able to say no, maybe its all lies and men dont face this pressure but my friends would go mental if their man said no… its an unhealthy mentality