Its more common than you think...
That why slogons such as...
" what others think of me is none of my business" was
Made up by people.
My own personal reference is
' i don't give a **** what others
Think about me"
I must get into salutions
Of breaking habits that's
Not working for me....
By defualt we give other people
To much power if i worry too
Much what others think.
There new concepts introduce to me...
such as dont fix it.
In other words instead of trying to stop your
Old behaviors.....
Develope new behaviors.
Your new behaviors or
Thinking pattern will replace your old patterns