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Her names MaryJane. If youre sittin around thinkin that no girl out there will ever let you hit.. youre wrong. Mary will lay down in your swisher and let you hit that ish like a porn star. So turn that frown upside down and get at her. Just my 2 cents.
 
I'm sorry....I just don't see the value of a thread that promotes drug use as a cure for loneliness. wtf?
 
mj being a drug is debatable. Just trying to open some minds to the sweet leaf. You cant tell me its worse then some anti depressant that comes with a warning label saying that it might cause suicidal thoughts or that poison people kill themselves with called alcohol.

Youre right though loketron there is no substitute for the real thing but when MJ is all you have then what can you do?

Sorry if it came out like i was trying to get you guys hooked on crack and hookers.
 
EveWasFramed said:
I'm sorry....I just don't see the value of a thread that promotes drug use as a cure for loneliness. wtf?

I completely agree, Eve.

Potheads always say, "Weed isn't dangerous, it doesn't do anything to you, no long-term effects, etc etc etc." ********. I've seen it too many times to believe it otherwise. People who smoke weed get hooked to it and they drop out of life because the weed makes them not give a **** about anything. It's addictive and it's destructive.

----Steve
 
Mary Jane will not make you less lonely. Smoking that stuff will only make you too lethargic to care that you're lonely. One day, you come down from that high and realize "she" cost you a few potential friends (and possibly more).
 
Feeling guilty about doing something is too much work. Guilt tighten up the grip even more, thereby keeping you
in the endless cycle...

If you're going to party, then really, really party.... FFS.
There's plenty of pothead chicks out there that will get high with ya, **** your brains out at the sametime and bring the weed too, for the love of god.

The reason why I stopped drinking and getting high was something I had to do for myself. It was my chioce. No one had to convince me.
Wheather it's legal drugs, prescribe drugs or alcohol. I choose not to put mood changing, mind altering substance into my system.
See....I don't do anything half ass or half measure when it come to my recovery either.
It's a charecter triat that I have. The defects are in the miss application or miss appropricate use of this triat.
I've accepted this part of me. I seized fighting it.
I can use it to work against me or work for me. The chioce is mine.

I didn't have a drinkig or getting high problem. I had a living problems.
Getting high or partying all the time to escape or cope....Checking the **** out.
Addiction is a cunning enemy of life, it's baffling and powerful.
You can't run forever.....

well..my bottom was this. I rather get high then get laid...that was really ****** up.
I was really one sick puppy to get to thaT piont.
I can't compair my bottom to your's...go as deep as you wanna go..I guess.

Getting clean and sober or being abstance was but a beinging...a very important beinging.
You can't put the buggie in front of the horse. First things first.
Being abstance never solved my living problems. However it gave me an opprotunity to work on my living problems more level headed.
It minimized or eliminated the negative consequences (side effects) that came with the territory of drug abuse.

I love Chelle very much. Losing her were some of the negative consequence I had to paid for the price of getting high.
I'm greatful she still loves me today and we have sometype of a loving relationship. It has been a long time just trying to
get back to this piont of my life. The wreckage and pains I've cuased in our lives isn't easy to repair.
Obviously..I didn't understand how much hurt I cuased Chelle...I was numb out of my fucken mind.
It's not rocket science...

Being a recoverying addict...I became more aware of the justifications and excuses I have for using.
mmm...I got really, really drunk on our wedding day....
I got totally shited face when we got a divorce.

It was her fualt...all her god damn fualt why our marriage didn't work. She was such a bitch....
I justified why I felt that way and blamed her too. Living in denial.
I'll fucken show her...
So I went out and moved in with 2 women that ****** my brains out and got totally **** faced with me everynight.
I don't need her...i don't need Chelle in my life. There's always going to be some woman or women standing in line "next".

However my duaghter is still my duaghter. She needed me from the moment she was borned.
Just like when Chellle needed her father...but he wasn't there.
Just like when I needed my father...but he wasn't there.

No Chelle is not perfect and I shouldn't take all of the blame...However I must still take ownership of my ********. I can't run from that anymore.
See...I think clearer today and feel better cuz I'm not numb anymore. I make better chioces today.
I'm my owe worst enemy...I'm also aware of this today too.

You can get high if you want. No one can stop you. It's your chioce...Just don't blame anyone or anything for the chioces you had made when it's time to pay up.
Obiviously most people wanna hit that pipe and check the **** out when it's time to pay. That'S where all the games, dramma and turama comes in...it gets progressive.
Of course every pothead say..."Not me, I'll never do that, it'll never happened to me, I'll never end up like thaT"
You'll rationalize it and continue to get high...until you've have had enough. And it's never enough.
You say other people use and it's okay...or you'll say other people drink alcohol and it's okay for them. You even you have a perscription for it and it's okay becuase
you have been certified and approved to ****** your life..so that must make it ok....

It's all fucken okay...it's just unhealthy as ****.

Have you ever though and wonder what was going through my mind and how it was for me when I was still getting high???
The same ******* thing you're thinking....been there done that.

Have you ever wonder that's why your fucken lonely to begin with and why you don't have women in your life. Being a pothead turns off a lot of chicks.
I mean who in hell wants to admit they're fucken pot heads??? I mean it's all fun and games until someone gets hurt or the cops show up.

aS a recoverying addict I say this "you can't ******** a bullshitter"

If you can drinking, use and do whatever the **** it is you do and still manage your life, live happily and healthy...More power to you.

Obviously, the MJ pushers wheather with a certificate (doctors) or illegal channels are going to promote it's usage.
It's a mulity billion dallor industry FFS. See... the MD's wife is a fcuken shrink too...it's a win win situations for them...you're just a fucken pond.:p
You going to buy MJ stickers, t-shirts, pipes, bongs being slick, hip and cool being a fucken billboard for them. Hello???? Their cousins fucken make grips of money this way too....
You're infected...man. **** it...tattoo a fucken leaf over your heart and become a lifer.

FFS..there's 6 billion people on this Planet...there's plenty of women out there for ya...
How in the **** did you get so narrow minded to start this thread...
Oh yeah...you fried your fucken brain...duh !!!!
I belive you lost your fucken mind.
 
Marijuana *is* a drug. It's a substance used to alter your mood; to obtain a "high". Just like alcohol and cigarettes are drugs, so is Marijuana. There is no debate in that. Now, that doesn't mean I think that it's the worst thing ever and going to kill people and crap, just saying that it is a drug.

Weed *can* be addicting, it depends on who's smoking it really, and whether or not you have an addictive personality. I've seen some occasional pot smokers, and then there's the potheads who "have to" take a hit everyday. I lived with two roommates before that were the latter. They didn't always have enough money for groceries but they always scraped enough to manage to get their hit/couple hits of pot everyday. It was utterly pathetic.
 
LMAO @ ColdSoul:
Pot killed my father! And raped my mother! :D
I smoke it if I've got it, but I'm not every day for months like I used to be back a while. It does make me too lazy, but on the other hand if it wasn't for pot, I doubt I'd have ever finished college, since it made the absolutely horrible classes and work doable.
The fact that it's illegal is ridiculous, though. That's my $0.02.
 
driftboy87 said:
LMAO @ ColdSoul:
Pot killed my father! And raped my mother! :D
I smoke it if I've got it, but I'm not every day for months like I used to be back a while. It does make me too lazy, but on the other hand if it wasn't for pot, I doubt I'd have ever finished college, since it made the absolutely horrible classes and work doable.
The fact that it's illegal is ridiculous, though. That's my $0.02.

Seriously? Pot helped you finish college now? lol

Using your own style of sarcasm : "Pot saved my father! It let me finish college! It found my lost cat!"

My point is, I don't really believe pot is the reason you finished college. :p
Heck, I've seen waaay more cases of people failing at school worse and being heavy potheads than people doing awesome at school and smoking it. Of course, if it's just occasionnal, it won't really hurt your studies but it definitely won't help them either. o_O You can get through classes while smoking pot a lot, don't get me wrong, but I don't see how it can help.

I'm not saying pot is like the worse thing ever, everything I've read says it's pretty mild, eh.

Anyways, I don't need any drugs to be happy and I doubt it'd make someone lonely any happier. I think it'd just make it better for the duration of the effect, then worse.
 
driftboy87 said:
The fact that it's illegal is ridiculous, though.

It's illegal in the U.S. because Americans have never once proven that they are capable of using such a drug responsibly....at all. :p It's quite possible that entire industries could shut down because we would use it too much or too often and never show up for work.

And how many teens would get their older bros/friends to get some for them? How many of those teens would use it too much and end up never completing high school?

There's a LOT to the decision to make such a thing legal....although on the flip side of the argument, if it were legal then the government could tax weed and probably pay off the national debt within a month. XD

----Steve
 

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