They could have said no...

[Despicable Me]

Thanks Regum, reported. Let the mods deal with this mess. I'm done. If they want to warn/ban me, so be it. What should I care? I was just trying to help someone.

 

[VanillaCreme]

All you're doing is bullying, whether you realize it or not. It's pathetic. You're just being hypocrites.
Vanilla, what is the point in telling people to stop bickering and then just doing it yourself? And then of course you just let them keep doing it. You're a mod for crying out loud. Talk about hypocrisy.

And I'm sorry M, if you're reading this nonsense argument. Some people seem to enjoy rejecting others rather than being open minded or accepting. It happens to many of us. You're not alone.

I wasn't bickering with my post. My question was legit. You don't need to tell anyone how to respond when the only thing you're doing is being hostile and bickering constantly with people.

 

[M_also_lonely]

All you're doing is bullying, whether you realize it or not. It's pathetic. You're just being hypocrites.
Vanilla, what is the point in telling people to stop bickering and then just doing it yourself? And then of course you just let them keep doing it. You're a mod for crying out loud. Talk about hypocrisy.

And I'm sorry M, if you're reading this nonsense argument. Some people seem to enjoy rejecting others rather than being open minded or accepting. It happens to many of us. You're not alone.

I have decided. I wont tell them anything. What I will do is throw a huge party, and invite them....

 

[SoulOfTheNorth]

One of my classmates had birthday yesterday. And we are in the same class batch. We are 16 in the batch. He announced a little party for the batchmates.. I didn't know whether I was invited or not. when I asked him where the party was, he said it was at a nearby cafe after the college would get over. So I went there, I took a simple gift card for him.....But nobody came. I thought I was late. I called him, but he didn't pick up the phone.And today when I asked why didn't anybody come, he said that he didn't want to invite me and he couldnt tell this straightaway. So he did this...I asked for the reason or if I had done anything wrong, he said, "Nothing. I just didnt want to invite you."..
Why do they always hurt me???
He could have said this to me before that he didn't want to invite me....

Stop trying to be mates with arseholes.

 

[stork_error]

I thought about what I might do in this situation and I thought I would probably take the person aside and ask them why, and then if I wasn't happy with the answer I would tell them that singling out someone is a real prickish thing to do. I'd tell them that I think they are a total ******* for it and that they can eff themselves... and then I wouldn't talk to the person anymore.

However...
This happened to me recently and I reacted very differently. The guy who didn't invite me probably did so because a few of the girls he did invite don't like me and I don't like them.

I remembered however that this guy once admitted to me that has always been drawn to the bad people/ bad girls/ abusers etc and that he gets himself into a lot of trouble because of it.

So, I just saw him as being swayed by peer pressure and I felt sorry for him because if he would choose nasty dirty girls over me as a friend then more power too him. I never confronted him and I'm still polite to him but I do think he's a ***** and he can have those nasty *******.