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... about dating a woman who has a child or children? And no, this isn't dating that you anticipate ceasing before it goes into -deep- love territory. You're looking for someone with whom you can make your wife and spend the rest of your life with. Does your criteria exclude women with children?
I hate to be envious, but I can't deny that I am of guys who leave wonderful women with children to men who have not made such moves. I am in my mid 20s, single without children, looking (not hard as my desires say I should be, I suppose), and completely discouraged when it comes to the idea of meeting a woman I'm compatible with who doesn't already have a child! Unfortunately, I feel like I may need to change my critieria because the mission seems more impossible than anything Tom Cruise has encountered.
Do you find it ridiculous to want your first child to also be her first? If your criteria excludes women with children, and you are a single man longing to be in an intimate relationship with a woman, do you ever consider the idea that you may very well need to adjust your criteria sooner than later?
I hate to be envious, but I can't deny that I am of guys who leave wonderful women with children to men who have not made such moves. I am in my mid 20s, single without children, looking (not hard as my desires say I should be, I suppose), and completely discouraged when it comes to the idea of meeting a woman I'm compatible with who doesn't already have a child! Unfortunately, I feel like I may need to change my critieria because the mission seems more impossible than anything Tom Cruise has encountered.
Do you find it ridiculous to want your first child to also be her first? If your criteria excludes women with children, and you are a single man longing to be in an intimate relationship with a woman, do you ever consider the idea that you may very well need to adjust your criteria sooner than later?