Too good to be true !

[putter65]

There's this other woman at work who has shown a bit of interest and she gave me her number last week.

I just thought the woman I went out with isn't bothered so I sent the other one a message.
'How are you' - my mobile beeped a few minutes later so I thought she had answered. But it wasn't her, it was the one I went out with. Saying blah, blah, had a busy weekend and wanting to know how I was doing.

So maybe it isn't dead in the water.

What should I learn from this ?

 

[theSmokingRabbit]

That she is busy and possibly still interested.


Don't expect too much too fast.

It's also not a bad thing to pursue other romantic leads since no level of commitment has been reached yet.

Just don't turn into a pimp on us putter.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

multy task?

 

[putter65]

That she is busy and possibly still interested.


Don't expect too much too fast.

It's also not a bad thing to pursue other romantic leads since no level of commitment has been reached yet.

Just don't turn into a pimp on us putter.

Thanks !

 

[Lonesome Crow]

That she is busy and possibly still interested.


Don't expect too much too fast.

It's also not a bad thing to pursue other romantic leads since no level of commitment has been reached yet.

Just don't turn into a pimp on us putter.

Thanks !

Lmao....I wasnt a pimp. Came pretty damn close though.lmao
Dating women half my age...I could had been thier daddy.
It's harilious **** when she say..."awwww, you're so so sweet
just like sugar"hahahahaaa

It's even funnier when the women my age looks at me
with an evil eye...when Im out with younger women.
It's even funnier when she slaps her hubbie in the back of the head or starts a little argument cuase her husband was staring
at the younger women. It gets even funnier when the younger
woman Im with actaully makes a scene to draw more attention
to her.lmao

Its even more harilious when I'm freaken Asain and the young
women I go out with are hot blondes..evidently I'm not her daddy.

It's sickening really. Its makes a lot of people wanna puke
either way.lmao

 

[putter65]

In England a pimp is a guy who is the boss of a prostitute.

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What should my next move be though ?

Just continue this texting back and forth and hope she suggests another night out ?

I know she is restricted with her kids and last weekend she couldn't go out. On our date she did mention us going out mainly to the pictures and then she told her friend that she is going to do that when her Mother comes back from her holiday and can act as a baby sitter. This is going to be next month.

I'm not sure I want to go out with the other one. There isn't many things I like about her. Plus I work with her. I am not even sure she is interested. It seems impossible to tell !

 

[putter65]

Just exchanged a few texts with her. She is finding her new job very hard and is stressed about it. She also has a cold. She said in one text that she hopes to find some time to see me again as she enjoyed our first evening together.

 

[Felix]

Just exchanged a few texts with her. She is finding her new job very hard and is stressed about it. She also has a cold. She said in one text that she hopes to find some time to see me again as she enjoyed our first evening together.

keep it up putter! I believe in you!

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Your options are unlimited.

Maybe just date multiple women
or leave your options open.
Like U say Multy task...

Its part of the dating process.
You get used to it atter a while.

Its actually normal what your going through when you first start dating.
You kindda lash on to first several women....

Then you get a string of them. And have fun woth that..
Then you kindda narrow dont your fields
to one or get borded of dating.

It just depends what you want to do.
You can date as long as you want...years to decades.

You might meet someone without kids or kids dont live with her anymore.

Or you might meet someone younger.

Theres unlimmited posiblities.
Just go with the flow.

you seem to want a wife right out of the gate...

which is undeerstand albe.

For me.. A lot of it was laziness.
Dating is retred to me. Alot of time, money and energy..
Ive done it or went around the block a few times..
I rather just have someone to come home to and just get on with relationship building....

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But you gatta sort them out.
you might have chemistry with someone...but they might have issues...etc..etc.

You gatta wieght everything and make decisons..

 

[putter65]

Just exchanged a few texts with her. She is finding her new job very hard and is stressed about it. She also has a cold. She said in one text that she hopes to find some time to see me again as she enjoyed our first evening together.

keep it up putter! I believe in you!

Thank you

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Your options are unlimited.

Maybe just date multiple women
or leave your options open.
Like U say Multy task...

Its part of the dating process.
You get used to it atter a while.

Its actually normal what your going through when you first start dating.
You kindda lash on to first several women....

Then you get a string of them. And have fun woth that..
Then you kindda narrow dont your fields
to one or get borded of dating.

It just depends what you want to do.
You can date as long as you want...years to decades.

You might meet someone without kids or kids dont live with her anymore.

Or you might meet someone younger.

Theres unlimmited posiblities.
Just go with the flow.

you seem to want a wife right out of the gate...

which is undeerstand albe.

For me.. A lot of it was laziness.
Dating is retred to me. Alot of time, money and energy..
Ive done it or went around the block a few times..
I rather just have someone to come home to and just get on with relationship building....

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But you gatta sort them out.
you might have chemistry with someone...but they might have issues...etc..etc.

You gatta wieght everything and make decisons..

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I know I can't call her a girlfriend yet. And in theory it shouldn't stop me dating other women. Whether I get any other dates is another matter.

I'll let you all know what happens.

 

[putter65]

Just exchanged a few texts with her. She is finding her new job very hard and is stressed about it. She also has a cold. She said in one text that she hopes to find some time to see me again as she enjoyed our first evening together.

keep it up putter! I believe in you!

Thank you

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Your options are unlimited.

Maybe just date multiple women
or leave your options open.
Like U say Multy task...

Its part of the dating process.
You get used to it atter a while.

Its actually normal what your going through when you first start dating.
You kindda lash on to first several women....

Then you get a string of them. And have fun woth that..
Then you kindda narrow dont your fields
to one or get borded of dating.

It just depends what you want to do.
You can date as long as you want...years to decades.

You might meet someone without kids or kids dont live with her anymore.

Or you might meet someone younger.

Theres unlimmited posiblities.
Just go with the flow.

you seem to want a wife right out of the gate...

which is undeerstand albe.

For me.. A lot of it was laziness.
Dating is retred to me. Alot of time, money and energy..
Ive done it or went around the block a few times..
I rather just have someone to come home to and just get on with relationship building....

---

But you gatta sort them out.
you might have chemistry with someone...but they might have issues...etc..etc.

You gatta wieght everything and make decisons..

---

I know I can't call her a girlfriend yet. And in theory it shouldn't stop me dating other women. Whether I get any other dates is another matter.

I'll let you all know what happens.

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Not sure I want a wife just yet lol !

What I want is a girlfriend. There are so many things I haven't done. Gone on holidays, weekends away, nights out, cosy nights in. I literally do nothing on a night apart from staying in. Been out once this year. Last year was once as well.

It's interesting the 'mutual friends' way (of meeting a woman) is something that's never happened before. And I do know lots of women as well. I've always thought it's because I'm not much of a catch.

I can't see because of this one date a floodgate will open and I will meet lots of women. I think however, I would find it easily to ask a woman out on a date. I've asked 3 out this year, before that I went 12 years without doing anything !

 

[Lonesome Crow]

it'll come. My experince hasnt been the same as your's. I've been in relationships
all my life. A year tops that I didn't have someone in my life,
if i actaully sit down and re think the time line.

Never the less dating became a challenge at my age becuase I havnt dated for a long time.
I went through different stages and all kinds of experince that I could never concieved.
Heck...I even fell in love with my ex-wf again. So yeah, in a way I wanted a wife right
out of the gate. She was someone familar to me. After that fell through..a bit heart broken,
I found myself stand in between the legs of a very young co-worker as if we were making out...
to running into an old friend or nighbour that used to have a crushed on me.
To walking into a bar for the first time in 20 years and a woman taking me with her that night.
I took it for what it was..the good and bads. At my age life isnt getting any longer.
I tend to let go of all those rules i had for myself that kept me from living.

A major factor is a woman I love very much died. She was still so young..in her early 30's.
The mistake I did was waiting for everything to be perfect or close to perfect before we
made a committment to each other. Life is a lot shorter than i think.
Nothing was right after that

For the most part i just want someone to come home to or a Long term relationship.
yeah i miss all those weekend get away, date night out even if we were together
or just waking up to her on a sunday morning.

Dating again at my age was something I never thought i had to do...but my life
turned out that way...but there's plenty of single avaliable women in my age range
or younger once I get into the dating scene again.

 

[putter65]

it'll come. My experince hasnt been the same as your's. I've been in relationships
all my life. A year tops that I didn't have someone in my life,
if i actaully sit down and re think the time line.

Never the less dating became a challenge at my age becuase I havnt dated for a long time.
I went through different stages and all kinds of experince that I could never concieved.
Heck...I even fell in love with my ex-wf again. So yeah, in a way I wanted a wife right
out of the gate. She was someone familar to me. After that fell through..a bit heart broken,
I found myself stand in between the legs of a very young co-worker as if we were making out...
to running into an old friend or nighbour that used to have a crushed on me.
To walking into a bar for the first time in 20 years and a woman taking me with her that night.
I took it for what it was..the good and bads. At my age life isnt getting any longer.
I tend to let go of all those rules i had for myself that kept me from living.

A major factor is a woman I love very much died. She was still so young..in her early 30's.
The mistake I did was waiting for everything to be perfect or close to perfect before we
made a committment to each other. Life is a lot shorter than i think.
Nothing was right after that

For the most part i just want someone to come home to or a Long term relationship.
yeah i miss all those weekend get away, date night out even if we were together
or just waking up to her on a sunday morning.

Dating again at my age was something I never thought i had to do...but my life
turned out that way...but there's plenty of single avaliable women in my age range
or younger once I get into the dating scene again.

I suppose we don't know what's round the corner. This woman came out of the blue into my life and yes it's going all too slow for me at the moment but that might change. Hopefully things will pick up and I can get to know her better really soon !

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Nope we sure dont know.
This past years for me espaecially..
Lots of good times..lots of bad times
Lots of bomshells... ( meeting my daughter for the first time in my life...
The woman in my signatuire)
When Renae and I reunited it was one of the happiest moment in our lives...but all of that went south.
But I remener her being ver happy and very much in love with me. I savor every
moment I had with her.
It was even crazier after Renae and I broke up....I ran into Jennifer right off the bat...She came out of nowwhere

Its even craier when Jennifer and Jenni.(the woen that died) Has the same name and looks almost the same...
Stuff like that trips me out....

It was even crazier when I met Juliet....
Shes rich....I remeber standing on her patio of her house on the rich side of town on the hills over looking the city
Juliet is beautiful.

I dont know whats going to happen tommorow. I just keep moving forward.
Try to keep positive as best as I can.

I could never convieced nor planned any of it...

 

[putter65]

Might be getting that second date. She replied to one of my texts and said she might be free next Friday night.

 

[putter65]

She couldn't make Friday but suggested Tuesday instead.

I'm not sure why but she seems to like me !