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cumulus.james

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Just saw this old pic of me from my early 20's. Seems like I was good loooking but not sure. I was prostituting myself at this time. I wish someone would have told me there was a better way.
 

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cumulus.james said:
Just saw this old pic of me from my early 20's. Seems like I was good loooking but not sure. I was prostituting myself at this time. I wish someone would have told me there was a better way.

Certainly was nothing wrong with your looks. I wish your life would have been different though. I also wish there was a way to change how you see your own future.
I guesses wishes are just that - wishes - until something happens to change that.
 
Alot of people look good in their 20s. Some last into their 30s.

Very few women look good after that, and only tall, well built men with strong features look good in their 40s and 50s.

Nobody looks good after that. Hair thins, skin loses elasticity, muscles degrade, fat accumulates everywhere. You can use all the creams and products in the world, have plastic surgery, exercise and take vitamins, it doesn't make any difference.
 
lonelydoc said:
Alot of people look good in their 20s. Some last into their 30s.

Very few women look good after that, and only tall, well built men with strong features look good in their 40s and 50s.

Nobody looks good after that. Hair thins, skin loses elasticity, muscles degrade, fat accumulates everywhere. You can use all the creams and products in the world, have plastic surgery, exercise and take vitamins, it doesn't make any difference.

I know loads of women in their 40's, 50's or even 60's who look attractive !
 
EveWasFramed said:
cumulus.james said:
Just saw this old pic of me from my early 20's. Seems like I was good loooking but not sure. I was prostituting myself at this time. I wish someone would have told me there was a better way.

Certainly was nothing wrong with your looks. I wish your life would have been different though. I also wish there was a way to change how you see your own future.
I guesses wishes are just that - wishes - until something happens to change that.

Thanks.


Oh how I wish I could send a message back in time.

The life I could have had.
 
lonelydoc said:
Alot of people look good in their 20s. Some last into their 30s.

Very few women look good after that, and only tall, well built men with strong features look good in their 40s and 50s.

Nobody looks good after that. Hair thins, skin loses elasticity, muscles degrade, fat accumulates everywhere. You can use all the creams and products in the world, have plastic surgery, exercise and take vitamins, it doesn't make any difference.

I very much disagree with this statement
a hottie is a hottie, only at seventy you will get mainly the 50 to 80 range to be interested in you, for example.
Look at Diane Keaton, for god's sake

Clooney, nobody thought he was special, turned 40, bam

there are lots of examples

the rosy cheeks like that guy in the picture ;) might go, but other things emerge

(ps, my mother has rosy cheeks at 74)
 
Peaches said:
lonelydoc said:
Alot of people look good in their 20s. Some last into their 30s.

Very few women look good after that, and only tall, well built men with strong features look good in their 40s and 50s.

Nobody looks good after that. Hair thins, skin loses elasticity, muscles degrade, fat accumulates everywhere. You can use all the creams and products in the world, have plastic surgery, exercise and take vitamins, it doesn't make any difference.

I very much disagree with this statement
a hottie is a hottie, only at seventy you will get mainly the 50 to 80 range to be interested in you, for example.
Look at Diane Keaton, for god's sake

Clooney, nobody thought he was special, turned 40, bam

there are lots of examples

the rosy cheeks like that guy in the picture ;) might go, but other things emerge

(ps, my mother has rosy cheeks at 74)

Sean Connery is 84 and he's still sexy.
 
TheRealCallie said:
Peaches said:
lonelydoc said:
Alot of people look good in their 20s. Some last into their 30s.

Very few women look good after that, and only tall, well built men with strong features look good in their 40s and 50s.

Nobody looks good after that. Hair thins, skin loses elasticity, muscles degrade, fat accumulates everywhere. You can use all the creams and products in the world, have plastic surgery, exercise and take vitamins, it doesn't make any difference.

I very much disagree with this statement
a hottie is a hottie, only at seventy you will get mainly the 50 to 80 range to be interested in you, for example.
Look at Diane Keaton, for god's sake

Clooney, nobody thought he was special, turned 40, bam

there are lots of examples

the rosy cheeks like that guy in the picture ;) might go, but other things emerge

(ps, my mother has rosy cheeks at 74)

Sean Connery is 84 and he's still sexy.

he's a grumpy old ******* though ! :)
 
ardour said:
Yes, you were/are good looking.

Thanks. I don't know why I made this post. Drunk I guess. Does me no good now its a decade later lol.

It has helped me prove that time travel into the past is not possible. Because we would all send messages back to ourselves in order to heal our ills and eradicate our regrets. That would change our own time-line, but also everyone else’s and there would be paradox after paradox. If we were all doing it then reality itself would collapse.

Unless you take the many worlds view of quantum mechanics, in which case by changing your own time-line you would create a new parallel universe split off from the original one. But the original universe would still be true, so what had gone wrong would still be wrong.

How queer time is.
 
TheRealCallie said:
cumulus.james said:
Because we would all send messages back to ourselves in order to heal our ills and eradicate our regrets.

I wouldn't.

But I would and lots of others would. Which is how I solved the question of time travel to the past.

no equations, nothing.
 

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