Was I good looking?

[TheRealCallie]

Because we would all send messages back to ourselves in order to heal our ills and eradicate our regrets.

I wouldn't.

But I would and lots of others would. Which is how I solved the question of time travel to the past.

no equations, nothing.

You and lots of others does not equate to ALL. That was my point.

 

[SophiaGrace]

Edit: Still not in a good place right now.

 

[cumulus.james]

Because we would all send messages back to ourselves in order to heal our ills and eradicate our regrets.

I wouldn't.

But I would and lots of others would. Which is how I solved the question of time travel to the past.

no equations, nothing.

You and lots of others does not equate to ALL. That was my point.

I was talking about physics and time and space and that. Not generalizing to every human. Humans are worthless and meaningless in the grand scheme of the universe.

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Edit: Still not in a good place right now.

You OK SophiaGrace?

 

[SophiaGrace]

Edit: Still not in a good place right now.

You OK SophiaGrace?
[/quote]

No, not really.

 

[cumulus.james]

Edit: Still not in a good place right now.

You OK SophiaGrace?

No, not really.
[/quote]

Whats up?

 

[SophiaGrace]

Edit: Still not in a good place right now.

You OK SophiaGrace?

No, not really.

Whats up?

http://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=33157

 

[cumulus.james]

Edit: Still not in a good place right now.

You OK SophiaGrace?

No, not really.

Whats up?

http://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=33157

Is it me or do you put too much preassure on yourself to achive and not enough to live?

 

[SophiaGrace]

You OK SophiaGrace?

No, not really.

Whats up?

http://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=33157

Is it me or do you put too much preassure on yourself to achive and not enough to live?

That's good feedback, I'm not sure how to make it more balanced though so not everything is in one basket for me.

 

[cumulus.james]

Think on this: The preassure to achive is one of pandering to external expectations. The preassure to enjoy live is one of pandering to the expectaions of your own self. Generally, those rare people you meet who have touched hearts and done a lot of good have done so not because they wish to make a liveing, but because they wish to live and to help others live.

What corperate people think of you is more irrelevent than you can possibly know. What you think of you and what real actual people think of you is the most important.

Think of an expensive thing you have been able to purchse. Then think of the praise of a "someone higher (better) than you. Then think of a person who has nothing and you have helped. Which thing would make you matter more?

 

[SophiaGrace]

Think of an expensive thing you have been able to purchse. Then think of the praise of a "someone higher (better) than you. Then think of a person who has nothing and you have helped. Which thing would make you matter more?

My brain is shutting down due to caffeine withdrawal. I think your worth as a person remains the same objectively but if you feel like your life doesn't have meaning, then what's the point?

 

[Ioann]

You had a lovely smile. I would imagine that could still be there. Or you could get it back. It is in your eyes as well as on your lips. I think if I had met you then I would probably have been intimidated by a confident seeming Essex wide boy!

You are certainly not the only person to lament your lost youth. I think it is an almost universal experience. As either George Bernard Shaw or Oscar Wilde said (depending on the source you look at) 'Youth is wasted on the young'. You only appreciate what you had when it is gone. That is what keeps the cosmetic industry going.

And it goes on. I am a decade older than you, and I wish I was back in my 30s now! Probably in my mid 50s, I will wish I was back in my mid 40s.

I know it sounds corny, and is oft repeated, but the thing to do is live in the present and make a better future, not worry about what has gone and can't be changed.

By the way, I have noticed that you are often good at helping other people with their problems, suggesting solutions and so on. You are an intelligent and compassionate person. That is more important than looks. Looks may attract people to you, but it doesn't keep them.

 

[cumulus.james]

Think of an expensive thing you have been able to purchse. Then think of the praise of a "someone higher (better) than you. Then think of a person who has nothing and you have helped. Which thing would make you matter more?

My brain is shutting down due to caffeine withdrawal. I think your worth as a person remains the same objectively but if you feel like your life doesn't have meaning, then what's the point?

errrm

42?

 

[ladyforsaken]

I think your worth as a person remains the same objectively but if you feel like your life doesn't have meaning, then what's the point?

I seem to be thinking of this myself, more and more lately.

 

[cumulus.james]

I think your worth as a person remains the same objectively but if you feel like your life doesn't have meaning, then what's the point?

I seem to be thinking of this myself, more and more lately.

Are all your moods going downhill? Is it my posts? I can be a morbid and pathologically melancholic miserableist

 

[ladyforsaken]

It's not you James. It's just stuff in my life that made me thinking of that ^ more often.

 

[cumulus.james]

It's not you James. It's just stuff in my life that made me thinking of that ^ more often.

Start a new thread and talk about it? - or do you have one alredy?

 

[ladyforsaken]

It's not you James. It's just stuff in my life that made me thinking of that ^ more often.

Start a new thread and talk about it? - or do you have one alredy?

Nope.. sorry to go off topic.

Carry on.

 

[cumulus.james]

It's not you James. It's just stuff in my life that made me thinking of that ^ more often.

Start a new thread and talk about it? - or do you have one alredy?

Nope.. sorry to go off topic.

Carry on.

Its not that I just feel embarrassed having started this thread in a drunken episode of narcissistic self pity, so wondered if I we could explore this possibly new topic elsewhere.

 

[ladyforsaken]

Ah I see. You could do that, as I have no desire in starting a thread whatsoever.

 

[SophiaGrace]

I think your worth as a person remains the same objectively but if you feel like your life doesn't have meaning, then what's the point?

I seem to be thinking of this myself, more and more lately.

We're just two buckets of fun, aren't we LF?